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It is quite possible because there is an inertia going towards open contact that if that is your desire to move in that direction will force certain issues to the surface that then have to be dealt with in order to clear it out.

So we are simply giving you the understanding of what to do that is preemptive to the need to have to deal with the revelation and repercussions that might happen if you don’t change the behavior now. So yes there is an inertia that might force them to the surface and reveal them because again things are becoming interconnected more strongly.

People will pick up on different kinds of body language and signals that you may not even be aware of that would reveal the idea of the behavior that you’re doing creating the consequential secret. So because your unconscious mind and subconscious might be driving you with your desire toward open contact then certain things if you don’t change the behavior now might force the secret to the surface and force you to change the behavior but only after certain consequences and repercussions are had which may not necessarily be the way in which you would wish to do it.

A lot of them may be.. it depends on the life path and the lessons that need to be learned.

But yes, again, many different secrets of that kind of nature that are harmful to others in that sense being perpetuated by certain behaviors that are negative, that are fearful, that are abusive may come to the surface. Again, it depends upon the life path and whether or not the intentions of those people who wish to learn certain lessons are fully realized in this particular incarnation.

No one is saying that you have to reveal the secret.

If you believe that the revelation of a secret is going to possibly put your life in danger, we are not talking about that. So, they can continue the behavior without feeling that if they want to have contact that could be they could be exposed in a situation that would be particularly destructive or dangerous for them. Yes, they don’t have to reveal the secret.

However, we would suggest that they allow themselves to follow their passion and their synchronicity in such a manner that it may remove them from the dangerous situation so that they could possibly be comfortable in revealing secrets of that nature in a new environment where their life and their situation would not be put in danger.

So, it’s about changing the environment that you’re in to be more vibrationally compatible with being open about those kinds of things. If you are comfortable doing so, then follow the synchronicity that may lead you to those places where you don’t have to worry that the revelation of that kind of a secret of your own true nature would actually put you in danger.

But in the situation that you may already be in, no, no one is again saying that you actually have to reveal the secret. Again, it’s about changing the behavior that is causing the consequential secret that would be truly disruptive to others who are not necessarily themselves negatively oriented.

So we are not talking about appeasing people who may have fearful reactions to things. We are simply talking about putting yourself in a situation where you may feel more comfortable allowing such a secret to be known.

Since they have—we assume—discontinued the behavior of illegality, the idea of their guilt is simply that they have caught themselves. So, in other words, they are trying to punish themselves when no one exterior to them caught them and punished them. So they are trying to punish themselves by feeling guilty about it for an extended period of time.

But we would say your sentence has been served. You have already been penalized by the fear and the guilt that you’ve been feeling for so long.

So you can release yourself and forgive yourself and be free from the sentence you have imposed upon yourself.

As long as you know that doing that illegal behavior no longer serves you, then you have learned your lesson. And that allows you to, as you say, get out of jail free.

It could. But you have to assess for yourself what the value is in revealing that kind of a secret.

If this is something that can truly benefit people, it is something that can be revealed in a positive way, a constructive way, so that lessons are learned and people can move on in their lives in a positive way. That’s one thing.

But again, if you find that the revelation of this secret would actually cause harm to people who in and of their own selves have done nothing negative, that’s another issue. If you’re talking about revealing the behavior of someone that has done something illegal, that’s yet again another issue.

Because again, if you know something about someone who has committed a crime in your society, then holding on to that information may itself be considered illegal in your society.

So you have to weigh all the factors of exactly what the secret is that you’re talking about. Since we cannot have an extended conversation with this particular questioner, then it has to be left up to the questioner to evaluate exactly what kind of a secret it is, and what the consequences would be in the revelation of that secret—or whether they can simply move on if they’re not the one generating the negative behavior.

As you humans say, there is a lot to unpack in that question because there are several different directions that that question took that need to individually be addressed.

No, we are not saying that you should drop everything. As we have often and always said, if you have a belief system that you cannot be supported by your passion, then you have to honor your beliefs and continue to do whatever it is you are doing that you believe is necessary to support you in life. Even if it’s not representative of your passion until such time as you learn that your passion can support you by at least giving it an opportunity to prove that to you by acting on your passion as often as you possibly can.

The second thing to unpack in that question is you are defining a lot of things that you could find more exciting ways to do but defining them in ways that are not exciting for you. When you talk about the idea of, oh, chores that have to be done in physical reality, you’re coming in with the idea of a negative definition of those things when there may actually be ways to do many of those things that are truly necessary for physical survival in ways that are more vibrationally compatible with who you are and would actually be more fun, more enjoyable.

So you have to use your creative imagination to figure out what the right way is for you to do the things that you believe are absolutely necessary for you to thrive in physical reality.

Again, you have to rearrange some of your definitions and you have to expand your definition of what support you actually need in any given situation or any given moment because it’s not always the kind of support that you think you need, especially with regard to the idea that you are now referring to of being evicted by not paying your rent, which means in your mind, I need money.

But again, even though that may generally be true in your society, there are still ways to mitigate some of that through communication with those to whom you may owe the money because again, communication is one form of abundance and sometimes just communicating with that person and letting them know what your circumstance and situation is. In other words, including them in the process that you may be going through that finds you coming up a little short may actually give them the opportunity to be generous and say, “All right, I’ll give you extra time or you don’t have to pay me right now.” Or all sorts of other things that they may come up with that you may not have considered possible simply because you’re not even willing to investigate that idea with your imagination and definitions being lower than they could be.

So again, it’s all about the circumstances, the situations, and what definitions you give them. We are not giving you anything that is actually unrealistic. These things do work. And the very fact that you open the question with the concept that it is unrealistic or that it is difficult for you says a lot about what you believe to be true.

And that’s fine if you want to hold on to those beliefs. All we are suggesting is that at least you give yourself an opportunity when possible in your schedule to make time to act on your passion to the point where over time at whatever pace you’re comfortable you can allow your passion to prove to you that it can support you in many more ways even better than what you’re doing now.

Don’t necessarily give up the things you’re doing if you don’t believe that your passion can support you. Of course not. So the idea is for you to determine the pace that you’re comfortable with, but give yourself an opportunity to let your passion prove to you that it can support you. At least go that far.

You may not have negative beliefs to let go of, but you may have erroneous definitions to let go of, because it sounds like you have a certain expectation of how you’re supposed to feel doing certain things that you choose to do.

There is nothing that says that you have to be jumping up and down all the time with absolute giddiness to experience the idea of acting on your passion. Do not misunderstand the definition of those words.

A state of absolute calm and absolute peace can also be representative of the idea of acting on your passion.

So the first thing you might want to do is let go of the way you think. Let go of the way you expect you’re supposed to feel by choosing to do the things that you do choose to do.

And just see if you’re entering a new state, a new level of appreciation and gratitude and peace and calm and tranquility and contentment, which in and of themselves can be variations of the feeling that you could associate with acting on your passion.

It doesn’t mean you have to be walking down the street and laughing your head off or being on fire all the time.

We will have to assume that by your term “uncontrollable outcome” you may be talking about the idea of dropping insistence. That isn’t clear in your question.

Nevertheless, if you have developed a plan for something to theoretically occur, remember that all plans need to be adaptable.

In other words, a plan should contain within it the ability to change the plan where necessary—to go with the flow, to go with the currents, to go with what happens, with what changes.

So, there needs to be some flexibility in there. And then you may find there are things you can act on if you’re not too rigid about exactly the way you think the plan should proceed.

So you might need a little bit more flexibility in what you call a plan, that can give you more options of what outcomes could happen that could still serve the same purpose—that could still feel like you have arrived at the conclusion that is necessary for everyone concerned.

You’re using it as a different example. Yes, it can be. Yes. All right. So, what are you asking? How do people under those kinds of stressful situations where the outcome is of such great import and at the same time they don’t have control?

What is the state of being to choose to ride that kind of an uncontrollable outcome type thing? Well, the first step would be to understand that even though it may seem you have no control over the situation, you always have control over your state of being, no matter what’s going on.

Remember, it’s not about what happens, it’s about what you do with what happens. That’s the main principle.

So staying in a state of being, I’m not saying you have to be happy that someone has been abducted, but staying in a stable state, a potentially positive state or at the very least a neutral state can allow you to be able to observe synchronicities that will come to you that can lead to solutions that would be beneficial for all.

So you have to learn the lessons involved. You have to understand that it may be something that’s part of your life path to bring you a lesson you need to learn. Need to learn how to deal with these things in a way that can be more constructive than what you’re afraid of.

So again, of course, it will always depend upon the specific situation and the specific circumstances and conditions of that situation. Even though you have posed a general question, you have to look at the specifics of what’s going on, who’s involved, what it is they hope to gain and all of those things in order to allow synchronicity to direct your attention to specifically what can be done and specifically what actions can be taken.

But the only way you’re going to receive that information is by at the very least remaining in a neutral state, if not fully a positive state, knowing that you will be given the information you need to move forward in a constructive and positive way to learn the lessons that need to be learned and allow for a more positive and constructive outcome for all concerned.

Watch your language and how you define that, because people do not fall out of states. They choose to be in one state or another, even if that choice is unconscious.

So again, they have to get in touch with their belief systems as to why they would choose to go into a state that they don’t prefer.

The idea is again: if you understand how things work, you will know that if you truly desire some kind of a positive outcome, then staying in the neutral or positive state is going to give you the best opportunity to do that.

Choosing to go into a fear-based state will not. Therefore, why would you choose it if the outcome is so dire? If the need for the outcome being positive is so important, why would you choose to go into a state that reduces the probability of having a positive outcome?

All that takes is an understanding of how energy works, and staying in the energy state that increases the probability of a positive outcome. So it has to do with your conviction of how things work. It has to do with an understanding. If you want to call it conviction, fine. But a true understanding and a clear understanding of how you create your reality, what your life path choices are all about in terms of how it helps you learn and grow.

You have to understand how it works. And when you understand how it works, no other choice but to stay in a neutral or positive state will make sense.

If they are in your life and appear to need assistance, then you have attracted them through your own synchronicity to at least offer them the possibility of receiving assistance from you.

You can always again suggest to them ways in which they may improve their situation. But after you have delivered that information—unless they give you any kind of signal that they want more assistance with that and more clarity or understanding of how to apply that in their lives—if they don’t do that, then you have been given a signal that you have given them all the information they’re willing to take, and you can move on.

So, the fact that they’re in your life can be a signal that at least they may be willing to have you give them the option. And whether they use it today or tomorrow or a year or 10 years from now is not the point.

The point is: if they’re in your life and they appear to need help, then synchronicity has told you that there may be something you can do to at least give them information that they will be able to use at some point in their life.

So, at least make the attempt—up to the point where it seems that they no longer wish your assistance. They’ll let you know either through their body language or their language. They’ll let you know that’s enough. They’ll go away. They’ll tell you to go away. They’ll tell you to stop trying to help them. Something will let you know that you have given them everything they can handle, everything they can absorb.

But at the very least, attempt to offer them something you believe in your heart of hearts may actually benefit them. That’s the best you can do anyway.

They don’t understand them. They may have a mental comprehension of the concepts that we’re delivering, but clearly they don’t understand them to the degree that they need to, to again realize how things actually work—because they are still choosing to struggle, still choosing to experience difficulty.

So it must benefit them in their mind, in their belief system, somehow, to continue to do so. Maybe they don’t believe they can learn the lessons they need to learn any other way.

They have to examine their belief systems and find out what benefit they’re getting about continuing to choose to struggle through their lessons.

They can always learn to process those challenges in ways that they can still learn the lessons in more positive, creative, and constructive ways.

So they don’t really understand the concepts—at least not clearly enough that they’re willing to choose other ways and use their creative imagination to find the path that works for them that is not so difficult and not so stressful.

They must be getting something out of what they’re experiencing as difficulty and stress.

But that’s one of the beliefs itself.

“I can’t control this.”

“I can’t help but buy into it.”

That’s a negative belief. So they have to pay attention to the fact that that dialogue in their head is coming from the negative belief as well.

It’s one of the quote-unquote tricks that negative beliefs have—to convince you that there’s nothing you can do, that it’s an automatic function, that you just can’t help.

Therefore, they have to learn to identify even that language—even the voices in their head about how they can’t do anything about it—as something coming from the negative belief.

Again, it takes an understanding in detail precisely as to how negative beliefs work, and perhaps understanding that it can take some time to learn these things. But practice, practice, practice.

But you have to understand the principle clearly enough to use it to your advantage. And one of the principles that’s important to understand is: when you feel like there’s nothing you can do about it, that feeling is the result of a negative belief telling you that there’s nothing you can do about it—and you buying into it unconsciously.

If you’re not used to higher-frequency energies, yes, you can be tired by processing it.

We would suggest that for right now, you allow yourself—if you’re going to do vocal channeling or something of that nature, automatic writing or what have you—that you simply continue to practice without wondering who it is right now.

As long as the information coming through you is positive and constructive, self-empowering for others and not controlling, don’t worry about the source right now.

Allow yourself to know that your higher mind is involved. Spirit guides are involved. Your soul family is involved. Your angelic beings are involved. Your team is involved. Your non-physical team is involved in some way, shape, or form. ETs may be involved. Extradimensionals may be involved. Elementals may be involved eventually as well.

But the idea is to practice getting used to clearing out any negative fear-based beliefs, any erroneous definitions that may be inhibiting your ability to process higher-frequency energy and information, and just let it flow through you.

And don’t worry about what’s coming out right now or who it is. Those are details that will reveal themselves in time.

Again, as long as you feel that the information in some way, shape, or form is beneficial, not controlling, but self-empowering to yourself and others, and giving you an opportunity to grow and learn lessons that are important for you in your life—then just keep practicing.

It can feel either way. As we have said, even a neutral state is a positive state because it allows you the freedom to make a choice. The idea is again to know that acting on your passion doesn’t mean you have to be jumping up and down.

It can be a state of very calm acceptance and gratitude and appreciation. It can be a very meditative state. It can be a state of contentment, contemplation, many different kinds of experiences. But you just have to know that what you’re choosing is truly in alignment with what you prefer. That it represents who you really are. That’s really the thing to focus on. Then whatever feeling comes with that will contain whatever energies it needs to contain to bring you awareness of the lessons you need to learn and bring you clarity about what it is you’re actually choosing and whether it is in alignment with who you prefer to be.

Everything in physical reality is a reflection of what you’re manifesting. But you are interacting with real souls. It’s just that in physical reality, you are interacting with your version of them—your creation of them.

In the same way that when you talk to someone over your computer or your telephone, you are interacting with an electronic representation of them. So you’re still interacting with a real being, but when you see somebody on your computer screen, you’re not interacting with the actual being in that moment. You’re interacting with an electronic presentation—an electronic representation of them.

So, it’s sort of like that. The idea that physical reality isn’t real doesn’t mean the experience isn’t real. It doesn’t mean the connection isn’t real. It’s simply the methodology that we’re describing about how you make that interface.

We’re simply saying the interface, in a sense, is one step removed—just because that’s the nature of how physical reality is created.

It’s like you’re creating a screen and receiving your version, through your belief system filters, of what that person represents to you, what that being represents to you. And they’re doing the same with you. But you’re still interacting with real beings on a higher level.

It’s just that you’re deciding that you’re going to interact with each other through this filter for the purpose of getting in touch with your belief systems and what you need to experience on your life path. That’s just the way it works in physical reality, because you’re creating the simulation.

So that’s what you’re doing: you’re using the simulation to get a reflection of what it is you’re putting out, so you can use it as a guideline to figure out what you need to focus on. But you’re interacting with real souls, of course.

1. Always check in with yourself to make sure that you don’t have expectations based on fear-based or negative beliefs that are out of alignment with the lessons you really need to learn in a situation like that.

2. You can observe that maybe the other people involved are also learning their lessons and need to look at certain things for themselves as well and that you’re working this out with each other by processing and communication and whatever processes you need to go through to gain clarity about what the interaction is all about and why you are experiencing it in the way that you’re experiencing it.

But always first and foremost check in with yourself to make sure that you’re not insisting and that your expectations are realistic and truly representative of what’s going on that are the things you need to learn for your life path. Then you can investigate perhaps if the other people are willing what’s going on in their life path. But always start with yourself.

So the attitude to take whenever you’re encountering beings in your life that are not in the relationship the way you prefer is to—as we have said in the simplest possible way—you always check in with yourself first and say, “Is there something in this situation that helps me understand more about what I’m putting out?”

If you truly have an honest self-assessment that it has nothing to do specifically with lessons that you need to learn about your own belief systems, then you might next—as a next step—say, “All right, well maybe I’m here to reflect to them something that they need to understand to help them with their life path and their life lessons and their belief systems.”

But usually—usually—in your society at this point in your evolution, it’s going to be something that works in all directions for all people concerned.

There is always something each person can get out of it to learn about what they need to learn to become more of who they truly are. That’s why relationships are so important to understand—as reflective to each other to help each other become more of who you actually are.

It’s very rarely only in one direction. There’s always something every party in a relationship can learn for their own life path.

We would not use the term at fault. We would use the term life path choices to learn lessons to help your soul grow.

So it depends upon the facility that you have to divine what those lessons are, absorb them, and learn them. That gives you greater and greater clarity and more expansion in your consciousness.

By understanding that whatever scenario is happening, there is something you can get out of it that has to do with your life path—and that your life path is always intertwined with other life paths as well, in the way that we’ve already described, reflectively.

No one is isolated. All life paths are interconnected.

And the idea is to get out of it what you need to learn for yourself, and to help the others also get out of it what they need to learn for themselves. But always start with yourself and what you need to learn.

Use the analogy of a parent and a child. When a child doesn’t understand something yet, they haven’t learned a certain lesson yet. They haven’t learned how to navigate certain things in physical reality. Do you sympathize? Do you pity them? No.

You have compassion that they are on a learning path. You love them no less. And you hold a space for them and teach them how to learn those things in a constructive and positive way. That’s the feeling.

You understand that they are on a path where they have chosen to learn certain things in a certain way. You hold a positive, loving space for them to be able to do so. That’s what compassion is.

You look beyond the idea of what may appear to be momentary and temporary limitations to the broader and bigger picture—that they’re on a path of learning certain things. And you don’t pity a child for not knowing them.

You have the largesse and the compassion to create a space for them in which they are invited to grow and to learn, and to see them as powerful souls that have chosen these lessons, that have chosen this life path to learn those lessons in that way.

Pity is not necessary and is not involved when you have compassion for others. So think about the analogy of a loving parent and a child. That may help you.

Why can’t you do both? Why isn’t it this and that instead of this or that? It’s not about avoidance. It’s about constructive conversation—constructive and positive communication about the things that you think are important to change in your society.

Avoiding them isn’t the issue. You can focus on what you prefer, but that doesn’t mean you avoid the idea that you’re still part of a society that is dealing with certain issues, and that you can add your own constructive point of view that may in fact help the situation be resolved in a positive and constructive way eventually.

So, it’s not about avoidance. It’s about inclusion. It’s about communication. It’s about willingness to participate and be involved—because you’re part of a society that is dealing with issues that need resolution.

But come at it from a positive and constructive point of view, knowing what is possible, knowing what is probable, knowing what could be more beneficial. But the idea is: engage, but engage in a positive way.

It’s not inherently negative to discuss things that themselves might be negative—if you approach it from the idea of “how can we make this more positive and more beneficial for all.”

So of course it’s the style of the approach that makes the difference. Remember again: it’s not about what happens, it’s about what you do with what happens that makes the difference.

So it’s not about the idea that you’re discussing things that might inherently have been created negatively that pulls you into negativity or reinforces the negativity. It depends on how you approach it.

There are many things you can do with children that don’t necessarily involve whatever kind of religion or faith they may choose to belong to or are being exposed to.

And that is the idea of using your own creative imagination to create scenarios in a safe environment—simulations, if you will—where children can be taught the consequences of the choices they make, because everything is interconnected.

You can teach them that everything is interconnected, and with your creative imagination create analogies and, shall we say, demonstrations of this—if you are imaginative and creative enough—in a way that they can understand that every choice they make has consequences, because it connects to everything else.

That you’re operating with whole systems—that nothing is isolated, everything’s connected to everything else.

So if they can learn to make choices that are beneficial for all, for the whole, then they themselves will also be served. If they’re just serving themselves, then they’re cutting themselves off from the benefits of the whole.

Teach them that they are as powerful as they need to be to attract whatever they truly need in life, without having to hurt themselves or anyone else in order to attract that, in order to get what they need.

You can teach them the formula in general, in whatever terms and language they are willing to understand. And just make sure that anything that you believe is necessary for them to thrive in physical reality as a lesson is adapted to their excitement, rather than trying to adapt their excitement to the lesson.

Those things can allow them to mature into adults regardless of whatever ideas of spirituality, faith, religion, what have you, they may hold on to—because some of those things can serve them in positive ways if they use them that way.

But the idea is to know that they are self-empowered beings who can grow up into mature, constructive, and positive adults that will benefit society and benefit themselves by understanding the consequences of the choices that they make, and therefore making beneficial and positive choices for themselves and for society.

No, precursors were not born on Earth. You may be preparers, but that’s different.

Preparers are homo sapiens that have made a life choice to be involved in the ideas of teaching humanity, how to be in the different altered states and learn lessons from different altered states and ways of presenting and communication that can prepare humanity for open contact. But precursors are actually extraterrestrial beings that were not born on Earth that may walk among you in order to, shall we say, rub off on you in terms of their vibration and take notice of how many people are sensitive enough to notice that they are different.

1. It’s connected to climate change which acts in different ways in different locations on your planet.

Some places get drier, more susceptible to fire. Some places get wetter and more susceptible to flooding. Some places get colder and more susceptible to freezing. Some places get hotter and are more susceptible to desertification.

So, it’s all about the idea of all the different variations becoming more pronounced and more exaggerated as you go through the idea of climate change, which is a a natural cycle, but b sped up by the technologies of humanity. What’s going on now most likely without the technological assistance, so to speak, probably wouldn’t have happened for at least another century or two. But now you have sped it up with the idea of your technologies that are in many ways destroying the environment or imbalancing it.

2. Stop rebuilding the same way you used to.

Learn new techniques. Learn how to adapt. So don’t just build what was there before that is easily destroyed. Adapt and build in new ways. Learn how to build with nature.