Lucid Dreaming and Tinnitus
Asker
Most of my life I’ve been sort of suppressing my passions and, um, interests in order to, uh, be who I thought everyone else wanted me to be. And so I’m having trouble now figuring out what my passions are, what my dreams are.
Bashar
You don’t necessarily have to immediately come up with an overarching career, a lifelong project. You start simple. You start small. Every moment you look around, you have options. Simple things. Everyday things. All you have to do is feel which one, at any given moment, has even just the tiniest bit more attractiveness, the tiniest bit more excitement in it, and just do that first. Take it as far as you can until you can take it no further. Then look for the next one that has just a little bit more excitement in it than any other option. Do that next. This is what we mean when we say that synchronicity is the organizing principle. By giving you things that contain more excitement than anything else, synchronicity actually shows you in what order to act on these things.
Bashar
We assume you came here today because this excited you at the moment. Yes. Yes. Then all you have to do, when this experience is over, is stop and say, “All right, what would excite me the most next?” Take a walk. Read a book. Eat with a friend. Make a phone call. See a movie. Whatever it is. Out of all the options available to you, pick the one that seems most exciting and act on it to the best of your ability with no insistence that it has to come to pass. And see what happens. And just keep doing that. It will eventually start building into bigger and bigger and bigger opportunities to allow you to exercise more action on more of your excitement.
Bashar
And then perhaps, if it is relevant for you to have some sort of larger scale project or career or something that is representative of your excitement that way—and that doesn’t mean there only has to be one expression. There can still be multiple expressions of an overall umbrella of excitement. But it will evolve into something larger. But it doesn’t matter if it does, because if you just keep acting on what excites you the most, no matter what it is, you will always be acting on your excitement, and you will live a life full of excitement. It’s that simple. Keep it that simple, and the ball will start rolling. It’s all it takes.
Asker
I understand. I guess it’s… I see a lot of people being very passionate about different things, about their careers, about…
Bashar
So what you can use them as inspiration, but it’s got to be done your way. Right. And you won’t feel that until you start acting on it. Remember, you… you have to be the vibration first. Yes. Okay. Copy.
Bashar
So when you are allowing yourself to say, “All right, it sounds exciting that I could just start acting on my excitement,” you’ll be in the proper vibration, and the things that need to happen will unfold in front of you. Your life will unfold as it needs to. You don’t have to judge yourself or gauge yourself by anyone else’s experience. In fact, you actually have no business doing so, because you’re not them, and they’re not you. You can use people as inspiration, or certainly you can use people as object lessons, but the idea is you still have to decide to do it the way that works for you. Doesn’t matter how anyone else decides it works for them. You’re unique. You have to do it in your unique way. That’s what it’s all about. Being yourself as fully as you can.
Asker
Hi Bashar. You good day? My name’s… well, they named me Tasha anyway in this lifetime. Um, I have several things I wanted to share with you. Yes. Yes. I’ve been a therapist for most of my adult life. Oh, all right. And about five years ago, during a session with a client, I had an overwhelming, beaming, loving, surging energy surged through every cell of my being. Lit up. How exciting. Yes. And then I got an instant download that I’m a family relative that has passed away, and I’m here to love and support him. And so I asked my client, and he said, “Yeah, my dad.” So we figured out it was his dad. Yes. And, um, after that happened, I was searching for answers to what… to what that was.
Bashar
I thought you knew what it was.
Asker
Well, I… I knew. I knew that it was his father that had passed away. But that beaming love that’s like beyond this world, through every cell of my being, could not have been him.
Bashar
No. It was more of you. Yeah. It was like… like my higher consciousness or super… yeah. Because it needed to be experienced by you so that you could tap into the higher level and deliver the information that you needed to. It was… remember, you have to go to the level before you can get the information that is reflective of that level. So you allowed yourself to open up, go to that level. That’s what it feels like. And then you were capable of doing what you needed to do to access the information you required to be of service.
Asker
So the next thing I did was I asked Bashar to take me onto a ship. Yes. For two nights. I asked through my consciousness to take me on his sh… on his craft. And the second mine? Why are you speaking about me in the third person?
Bashar
Sorry. Um, and I was… I went to sleep, and I was in a cockpit. And I won’t go into detail, but it was definitely not your race, because this was a seven or eight foot race.
Asker
Well, that’s how you interpreted it. Yes. Yeah. But it was… I still got to go on the craft and fly through space. So then after… was that fun for you?
Bashar
That was a lot of fun for me. I can’t wait until I can do it, even though it felt very physical when I down my… you can wait. Yes. I will wait. Um, okay. But the most important thing is about this was June 16th. I was woken up by like a loud instrument in my ear. Yes. Um, like really loud in my ear. Yes. And when I opened my eyes, I saw this being. And at first, my mind’s like, “Your eyes are playing tricks on you. You’re not seeing. That’s not really there.” All right. And then she moved slightly, like forward. And of course, she picked up my fear a little bit, ‘cause she just woke me up with a really loud instrument in my ear. Yes. Um, so she… she received back into the bathroom. And then this rotating ball of energy started levitating, coming towards my bed. And then she’s like, “Here I am. You know, your eyes are not playing tricks on you.” And then she went into the ceiling. Who was that?
Bashar
Can’t tell you that.
Asker
Why not? Allowed to? How did I know you were going to say that? ‘Cause you’re psychic. I knew you were going to say that. You’re psychic. Okay. Well, I love… why do you think that might be?
Bashar
Because it’s my journey to… to tap into that. In this case, yes. You’re still in mid-process with that being. So we can’t reveal too much. We can’t, as you say, spill your beans. Okay. Oh, not yet. Yeah. Can’t tell you that yet. P. You are in mid-process. Okay. You don’t have to keep guessing. We’re not going to answer the question.
Asker
Is there any, um, advice that you’ give me to connect better?
Bashar
Yes. Did a color come to you in that incident? In that experience? Or an object? Did something make itself obvious to you as being symbolically representative of that interaction? An object? A color? The sound? Of course, you already have. Did it sound like something in particular? A particular instrument for you?
Asker
Uh, feminine energy is the only thing that I can come up with. Feminine energy. Yeah. You’re saying that the sound that woke you up sounded like feminine energy? I’m sorry. I’m sorry. Um, so, you know, with drummers, the round things that they hit… you mean cymbals? Yeah. Well, it’s… that’s what it sounded like. On tan… intended. Like two… like someone just… like someone just slam two of those in my ear. Like really, really loud.
Bashar
So then, if you recreated that sound for yourself in a more comfortable way, what do you think it might do?
Asker
It was very… just like it was very, um, uncomfortable.
Bashar
I will repeat my question, since you obviously did not hear it. Yes. I heard it. Are you sure? What did I say?
Asker
You said if I recreated that… that sound, what would I exp… and ah, you’re leaving something out. And in a more comfortable way. A more comfortable way, which means not as loud. So do I just go by a few of those or what?
Bashar
You can, if you wish, if that works for you. But what we’re saying is you were given the vibration that will give you more of a connection if you recreate the sound. The sound symbolizes the vibrational frequency that will allow you to feel more in touch with that entity. Now, it doesn’t again have to be a crashingly loud sound. Yes. But they had to get through to you. Yeah. I’m… I’m a really deep sleeper. So there you go. So if you just recreate what feels like the correct sound in a comfortable way, at a comfortable decibel level, that can be the permission slip that they were giving you to say, “If you recreate this and let that vibration wash over you, you will be in the correct frequency to be able to interact with us more consciously.” So you were given what you need. You were given the permission slip. Thank you.
Asker
Can I… I hopefully maybe you’ll give me the answer to this. Maybe not. Um, I was coming home from a session. It was like midnight. And, um, I was fidgeting with my stereo, and I heard… I was reaching an intersection, and I heard “accident” really loud in my head. Yes. And I look up, and this guy’s in my entire lane, and I should have slammed into him and probably not be here right now. But if it weren’t for him saying “accident” really… I say him, but I don’t know who… who it was. Your guides? Anyone specific? Don’t I have several of them? Oh, all right. It was Todd. Does that help? You. Oh, no. Wait. Maybe it was Matthew. Oh, no. Wait. Maybe it was Fred. John. Oh, maybe it was John. Do you really need to know? Since you received the information in the way that you needed it, do you really need to know anything else?
Bashar
Yes. I want to know why the interv…
Asker
Because you would be dead.
Bashar
Well, what if… maybe I wanted… maybe I wanted to go.
Asker
Though obviously that wasn’t your path, or they wouldn’t have intervened. Okay. Because it wasn’t an intervention. It wasn’t. No. In other words, you didn’t want to go. So that gave them the permission to shout it out. Right. If you had really timed it, that was the time to go, they would have been zipper-lipped. I… there’s just… I cannot believe. I mean, I should have slammed into this guy, and our tires maybe touched. It was just cra…
Bashar
But all those things, again, in some senses, are worked out for timing. It wasn’t your time. They knew that. You knew that. And so they were capable of assisting you. Even if you had died, they would have told you it’s not your time and sent you back.
Asker
Oh, that would have sucked.
Bashar
No, it wouldn’t. ‘Cause it’s not your time.
Asker
Well, I probably would have been pretty… are saying that you do not enjoy being where you are?
Bashar
I’m… I’m like in the clouds most of the time.
Asker
Well, then you need to put your feet on the ground so that you can understand what you need from being in the clouds as well. It’s a balancing act. I know. That’s what Treb tells me too. But well, there you go. All right. Thank you. Does this help you? Yes. Are you sy… yes. What are you so impatient about? Where are you in a hurry to be other than where you are, which is the most important place you can possibly be? Here and now. Where are you in a hurry to get to? Out of here. Why? You chose to be where you are. Why are you in such a hurry to leave? ‘Cause I’m bored. Bored. Yeah. Don’t you understand that there is no such thing as a boring situation, only bored minds? Yeah. So why are you boring yourself? Oh, ‘cause I have an old dog that, um, I’m kind of like waiting for him to pass so I can like go out and get wild and live my life. Like he’s at home right now. I have a camera on him, like, ‘cause he’s crying waiting for mommy to get home.
Bashar
That’s what you’re using as an excuse. It’s not an excuse. I take him to the park every day. But that’s not what I’m saying. Excuse. I’m talking about the idea of the energy state you are choosing to be in. Do you think that’s what your dog wants you to feel?
Asker
No.
Bashar
Well, then why do you feel that way? Why? I have a very dysfunctional family, and you are taking on all of those belief systems because they work for you? Or do they not work for you? Do you understand that you are a different person every moment? Yeah. Well, if you really understand that, then the person that you choose to define yourself to be, or could choose to define yourself to be, doesn’t have a dysfunctional family and never did. Oh. You are changing your history. If you change yourself, you may still see them, but that doesn’t mean that they have any effect on you, because you’re the one that decides who you are.
Asker
I don’t see them because they’re so dysfunctional. I can’t be around them. But yet you are still around them energetically. Yeah. Well, there’s no difference. You’re accepting their energy as real for you. You’re accepting their ideas as real for you. They don’t have to be. So why would you choose to accept them as real when that’s not what you prefer to believe about yourself? Why? I don’t know. Yes. You do. ‘Cause it’s the lesson I set up for myself. I don’t know. But the lesson is to let go of the things that don’t work for you. I just don’t understand how family can treat somebody like that, you know.
Bashar
Because they propel you in the direction you need to go by being exactly representative of the direction you don’t prefer to go in. They gave you a springboard to push off from, not stick to. So don’t stick to it. Spring off from it. Say, “This is not what I prefer.” They’re giving you an opportunity to see more clearly what you do prefer by contrast, by comparison. So push away and be who you wish to be, who you prefer to be, who you actually are. Even though they may not act like it in their physical personalities, in their hearts, in their souls, in their spirits, that’s actually what they would prefer that you do: be yourself. And they will know that either in this life or after it. But it’s your job to know it for yourself now.
Asker
Oh, I do know it.
Bashar
No, you don’t. If you don’t use it. I do know it. But you’re not acting like you know it. You’re saying, “I’m bored. I’m ready to leave.” Yeah. That means you don’t know it. Remember, if it’s not in your behavior, if it’s not in your energy, you may have an intellectual comprehension of the concept, but it’s not in your bones. You don’t know it. So know it. Know it to be true for yourself. Let it be in your behavior. Let it be true for you, and then you’ll know it.
Asker
Thank you.
Bashar
It’s up to you. But please remember, you are never alone. You always have help. There is no reason for you to be bored. The universe is an exciting place. I know. Let yourself be excited because you’re part of that exciting universe. Okay. Don’t give in to the ideas that have nothing to do with you. The dysfunctions have to do with their own issues. They don’t have to do with you. I know. All right. Act like you know it.
Past, Memory, and Hybrid Children
Asker
You talked about, uh, people having totally different, uh, pasts based off of, uh, a present belief that’s changed.
Bashar
Yes. Because you are a different person with every change you make. Once you understand that in a very literal way, you will understand that that means you have to have, linearly speaking, a different history in order for that history to have made you the person you are.
Asker
So what do we do with the memory of that, though? Because obviously, as humans, we have memory, and we’ll remember the person.
Bashar
That memory is created in the present. And by the way, just so you know, you don’t actually have all the memories you think you do.
Asker
That was my next question.
Bashar
Sometimes you actually change enough that you don’t actually remember anything else, and what you think of as your past is something that you just created. But what comes with it is a feeling like it’s always been that way and that it’s always been your memory. And that’s not necessarily the case.
Asker
And we wouldn’t know otherwise.
Bashar
That’s… you may not know otherwise. Sometimes you might, because you might want a comparison. You might want to see that you have changed. You might want to prove to yourself you’ve changed by comparison. But very often, you won’t know. Just as we have told all of you that, even collectively, you’ve got different histories that none of you remember at all. Collectively, what you think of as your history now—“Oh, yes, this happened in 1980. Oh, yes, this happened in 1950”—those are the memories of the present history. You had a different history before, and you would have had different memories of it, but you won’t know that because it doesn’t make sense for you collectively to have memories of a history that is no longer relevant for you now. Some people are beginning to experience multiple histories. This has been labeled the Mandela Effect, where you’re beginning to realize that you actually have different histories. That people remember things differently than you do, and it’s not just because of faulty memory. They actually remember things differently than you might because they are remembering a different history. And you can still see that. You can still see other people remembering different histories. In the future, in the years to come, there will only be the collective history of those that are in agreement to be within a particular parallel reality. But for now, you can still see, to some degree, the different histories, so you can understand that you are shifting. Does this help?
Asker
Yes. No. Very interesting. Uh, yes. A lot to think about there. Which kind of leads to my other questions. Um, I’ve pondered the idea of parallel realities and parallel lives quite a bit. Yes. Um, inevitably, my question comes down to: Who am I in relation to all that? Because if there are infinite versions of me and infinite timelines, yes, what makes me me in that experience? And I mean, given that we’re supposed to be sovereign beings creating our own reality, you are. How does that work? How does that… uh, how do… how am I me, and everybody else that is me, themselves?
Bashar
They’re not you. They’re themselves. So they’re completely separate, yes, from me, in that sense, that I am my own sovereign individual. So are they. And it’s your perspective that makes you you. Their perspective is slightly different. That’s what makes them them. And we still make cross connections. Those people might… you might… you don’t necessarily always have to, but you might, if it serves you. Sure. Okay. Does that answer the question enough? All right. I understand that higher dimensional concepts can sometimes seem a little confusing. Using that’s all right. You’ll get used to it. Okay.
Asker
So then next step. Uh, you’ve mentioned, uh, that in this new age of transformation, uh, the idea of physical death isn’t necessarily one that needs to be experienced.
Bashar
Well, it’s more likely than not that you will still, more often than not, make a transition from physical experience to non-physical experience. You will probably also experience many of you living much longer, because you’re living more in the moment. When you live more in the moment, you don’t actually create as much of an experience of time, and therefore you become ageless and appear to live longer. But it’s just because you’re living more in the moment. So it’s not a matter of years, necessarily. It’s about the experience and the time that is experienced. Yes. It’ll translate into years from your linear perspective. It won’t necessarily feel like that to the person living it. You’ll just feel like you, and before you know it, you turn around, and you’re 300 years old from everyone else’s perspective.
Asker
Wow. Wow.
Bashar
You see, this is one of the reasons why we say, when you do what you love, you’re living in the moment. You all know the experience when you’re really focused on something that you’re really passionate about, really engaged with. Do you notice the passage of time? Not really. Oh, it feels like I’ve been here for about 10 minutes. I look up, and everyone says it’s been a couple hours. Most of you have had this experience, yes, where the time seems to fly by because you’re so in the moment. Well, the secret is: if you actually experience… if you feel like it’s only been 10 minutes, you’ve only aged 10 minutes, even though you reconnect with everyone an hour later. In order to keep up with everyone else and be in agreement with them as to what time it is. But time is very malleable. And when you actually only feel like it’s been 10 minutes, you’ve only aged 10 minutes. And that’s how you live longer.
Asker
Does it work the other way? If you feel like it’s dragging, you’re aging more?
Bashar
Yes. Because you’re paying more attention to time, so you’re creating more of it. So the paradox is: it drags out. You’re creating more details than you need to, and therefore you have to experience all those little details, and therefore everything gets very tedious. You get overstuffed with time.
Asker
Okay. So that’s interesting, because my… my motivation, my reasoning behind a lot of these questions is, uh, one of my primary, uh, challenges and and fears has been in the idea that I don’t have enough time.
Bashar
Of course you do. You have exactly the perfect amount of time you set up for yourself to explore whatever it is you going to explore. And one of the wonderful things going on now in this age of transformation on your planet is that you can actually complete one theme and actually still create a new theme without dying.
Asker
So can you elaborate on that?
Bashar
I just did. You can complete one theme, the one that you may have set up for yourself in general to begin with, and you can actually then stay physically alive and decide to start exploring a different theme without physically dying.
Asker
So is that a conscious decision? I mean, how?
Bashar
Not necessarily, although it can become one. But the idea, again, is to start from the preposition that you have exactly correctly and precisely the amount of time you need. Precisely. And that’s because it’s not really about time. That I don’t have. It’s about timing. It’s about timing. The only way you experience, again, like we said earlier, not having enough time just means you’re spending your time worrying that you won’t have enough time, which doesn’t give you enough time because you’re using your time for something other than what you could be using it for.
Asker
And that’s my… been my experience. And I… you saying what you said just now kind of makes me connect the dots to realize that I have created more time for myself to get through those milestones that I’ve… yes, been trying to get to, or, uh, not trying, but seeking to get to.
Bashar
Yes. Yes. Yes. But again, you will get to them if they are part of what’s relevant for you to experience. Again, you’ve made all the agreements, and you’ve made all the appointments that you need to keep. Just keep moving. Acting on your passion. No insistence on the outcome. You will keep all the appointments. The only way to miss the appointments is to spend time worrying you will miss the appointments.
Asker
So on that note, yes. Let’s say we worry about the… the appointments, and we theoretically miss an appointment. Yes. Do we reschedule? If it’s that important, how does that work?
Bashar
Sometimes you might. But there are different ways of rescheduling. Sometimes a person may reschedule by actually physically dying and then shifting to another reality where they are, quote-unquote, still alive. So then that new person in that new reality that hasn’t died… that they step into… they don’t step into it. What do they do? The focus of consciousness simply shifts to a place where they can have the time to have the experience.
Asker
Okay. Well, my question was more on the lines of… we were talking about parallel people, parallel mes. Uh, yes. But they’re not you. Well, so if I’m, uh, going to go down a sci-fi script route here, yes. Uh, say, you know, I die, and I choose to go into… to have the experience of another lifetime, yes. Uh, that picks up right where I left off.
Bashar
And you can do that as an experience. You… you can do that. Remember that there’s a difference between what you create as an experience and the description of what’s mechanically actually happening. So you can create the experience that that’s what happened. That doesn’t mean that the mechanism is accurately described by the experience.
Asker
So I’m not stepping into someone else’s reality and destroying my doppelganger? And… uh, no.
Bashar
Okay. Interesting. Okay. It’s a dance. And timing is such. All right. I’ll put it in your terms. All right. Thank you. If it’s infinite, yes. Yes. Then there are going to be versions of you that will also want to shift at the same time you do. So you’ll dance and trade places. You’re not removing anyone from what they need to experience. They make a choice that’s the equivalent vibrationally of your choice, and you give each other what you need.
Asker
So this is all just my ego mind trying to figure out how things work. And yep. Yeah. Okay. That makes sense.
Bashar
Look at it this way: Imagine you have a disc, and the disc is full of holes. And behind that disc, you have another disc that has different colors on it. And as you rotate the disc behind the one with the holes, you see different colors appearing in the holes. But the holes don’t change. Is this making some sense? Yeah. You are changing the frequency of that hole, so that hole has a different experience. But that hole is still the same hole. So it’s not like it’s replacing another hole. It’s shifting its frequency to have a different experience that seems to be the experience of a different hole. And it is a different hole for itself, but it’s still the same hole having a different whole experience. Does that help, or did that just confuse you even more?
Asker
A little bit of both. But, uh, I understood a little more before you actually explain that.
Bashar
Oh, all right. Then forget everything. Maybe it helped somebody else. All right.
Asker
Um, okay. So next quick thing. Uh, I have what I believe is a… a small case of tinnitus. I don’t do health readings. Uh, so I’m just wondering if it could be anything but a physical.
Bashar
There may be a physical representation of other levels of energy that you’re not processing yet. Because sometimes other levels of energy will sometimes sound like high-frequency pitches that you hear.
Asker
Because I’ve always had very sensitive hearing. All right. It’s something that I’m very… it may be becoming more sensitive in the sense of hearing higher frequencies that you couldn’t hear before. Perhaps because it has gotten… I’ve noticed it more. All right. And, and I mean, I do go to shows. I experience loud sounds. But usually it goes down. And I have noticed that it recently is very present for me.
Bashar
I would suggest this: If there is a physical component, you’ll find out if a physical component needs attention if you simply move forward by acting on your passion to the best you’re able, no insistence on the outcome, and allow yourself to get used to the higher frequency energy. And as you get used to the higher frequency energy, if there is a reason for you to be attentive to the physical component and have something corrected, then the higher frequency energy of the organizing principle of synchronicity will bring you the information you need to tell you you need to go and see an ear specialist. Okay. That’s how it’s all connected. Okay. Yes. All right. Does that help?
Asker
That helps. All right. Lastly, a quick story. Uh, it was a dream I had, uh, long time ago. And, uh, I just thought it was funny, and I’m sure it’s connected to some sort of, uh, program going on out there. But, uh, I, uh, I basically found myself, from where I remember in the dream, in a cafeteria-like setting. Uh, metallic stuff everywhere. I was with a group of large people, probably about the size of this crowd here. Yes. Um, along the edges of what I remember, uh, there were overseers of sorts. Yes.
Bashar
You’re having a symbolic memory of an actual experience. A border craft.
Asker
Well, what I remember, and and why I’m telling the story, I think it’s a little funny. Uh, we were all sitting down, and I had the understanding that we were going to have a meal. That we were going to sit down and have sustenance of some sort. Yes. And I got up, uh, kind of upset, because I… I guess I woke up, or I realized what was going on, and I shouted out to everybody saying, “Hey, uh, what’s the deal? We’re out here on this special craft. Why are we getting regular food?” Because they were trying to… to give us like burgers and fries and steak. And I knew the trick, and I wanted something different. So I assume I wasn’t following the program, and everybody was shocked. That was the… yes. That was the sense that I got from everybody else in the room.
Bashar
Well, you’re correct. That was a little bit funny.
The idea is—it’s part of the funny. The idea is—it’s part of the training program. Not of you, but of them.
In other words, the phase that the hybridization agenda is in is attempting to help the hybrids understand your culture and get used to blending in and doing things, at least to some degree, the way that humans on Earth do them.
So the idea of serving you food that they believed was typical food for a human was their training course of what to serve humans. To serve man. Yeah. But not in the negative way. Right. You’re not on the menu. No.
But the idea is they were being given an opportunity to practice how to give food to humans and what kind of food humans say they generally appreciate.
So it’s all right that you sort of saw through what was going on. But that’s what it was for.
You’re helping to train the hybrids fit in to Earth’s society a little bit more by giving them a chance to behave and act out things that are common on your planet, like in food, to someone.
Because these things are very alien to them. Very foreign to them. They don’t understand a lot of these things.
Even the idea of putting food on a plate is alien to them. Why do you need a plate? Why do you need a fork? Why don’t you just pick it up with your fingers? Why do you eat that anyway? Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
They have a million questions that you take for granted because you were raised to think that all these things are normal in your culture.
So you’re participating in that. Thank you very much. And it’s all right that you sort of woke up and saw what was going on.
There is a little bit—because they know how most of you do react when you suddenly realize what’s actually happening—there is a little bit of a kind of a hypnotic screen in those experiences so that you will kind of go along with the program.
It’s not an attempt to control you, but it’s an attempt to assuage your physical mind enough that it doesn’t get in the way.
But your physical mind woke up and realized that this was sort of a play-act. And, “Hey, what’s going on here?”
Sharing Your Story and Intuitive Gifts
Asker
Hello Bashar. And you good day? Um, I guess a lot of them already answered some of my questions. How synchronous of. But, um, what I wanted to say is that over the years I’ve done a lot of work on myself. Yes. And it brought me to a place where I found my highest excitement. All right. But as of late, I noticed what has been preventing me from going fully into my highest excitement is that, um, yes, a part of it requires me to tell my story. And I don’t really like talking about myself.
Bashar
Why not? I’m not saying you have to be egotistical about it. But if you recognize that part of moving forward and part of your excitement is sharing at least a part of your story with someone, if that’s true, if that’s really necessary, then why wouldn’t you assume that it is in fact part of your excitement and not something that needs to be taken egotistically?
Asker
It’s… it’s not necessarily ego. It’s more so that I’m afraid to.
Bashar
That’s ego. Oh, yeah. That’s ego. Yeah.
Asker
You’re right. I know.
Bashar
That’s ego. Negative ego. You’re afraid to do it because you think you’ll be judged.
Asker
Yeah. And I’m judging myself, of course.
Bashar
You are. It’s turning me into this cynical girl who kind of just, you know, isolates myself and procrastinates a lot. And all right. Then be proud of being cynical girl. That’s your superpower. I am cynical girl. I can slay the best intentions with a thought. I can dampen the most wonderful dreams. I can destroy your hopes. I am cynical girl.
Asker
No, no. It’s… it’s, um, I don’t want to be anymore. I… I want to be… time to turn in your cape.
Bashar
How about this: Being who you are. I sense that you can be, in a positive way, a little feisty. Am I correct?
Asker
Yes.
Bashar
Why not be a little more feisty with yourself? And I don’t mean this in a negative way, but I’m just going to use this terminology because it seems that this would be the clearest way to express it. Why don’t… why don’t you tell your inner critic to take a hike? Okay. All right. It’s all well and good to pay attention to make sure that there isn’t some advice there that actually would serve you. But if you’ve determined that that’s not advice that works for you, you can tell your inner critic, “Thank you very much. You’ve done your job. But right now, I’m the one in charge, and I’m going to make the decision, and I’m going to stop judging myself because that’s not commensurate with who I prefer to be.” Yeah. Can you do that?
Asker
Yeah. I actually, um, a few months ago, had occasionally… I get like out-of-body experiences. And one of… one of them that I received was, um, me standing before… I don’t know what it was exactly. Some guides. And they told me, “It’s time to get over it.” Yes. Get over it. Yes. In other words, if you’re going to be cynical, at least you could do yourself the favor of being cynical about your cynicism. Yeah. Yeah. You’re right. I know. That’s why I said it. Is this helping you at all?
Bashar
Yeah. Yes. It is.
Asker
Do you feel a little bit freer to move forward in the way that you prefer to without fearing that you’re going to be judging yourself? Or do you feel that you can move forward, and even if someone else comes to you and you test yourself by having them act like they’re judging you, will you know that it has nothing to do with you and pass the test?
Bashar
Yes. I… I’ve done that before.
Asker
Can you do it again?
Bashar
Yeah.
Asker
Can you do it again and again and again?
Bashar
And again. And again. And again. And again. And just keep doing that. Okay. There’s no reason to stop doing that. Yeah.
Asker
You’re right. I know. Um, and and let’s see. I… you probably answered this already. But since I was not for… you clearly. Since I was, um, a kid, yes. I’ve… you mean last week? Yeah. And now a little bit. I have. You know, yeah. You’re also kids. Yes. Yeah. Qualities. But I’ve always been communicating with guides. And yes. Of course.
Bashar
It’s natural. Children haven’t learned not to yet. They haven’t been trained out of it yet. So some of you will hang on to that. But the idea is that you can develop that again.
Asker
Yeah. Yeah. I still… I still do. Yes. And I was sharing my intuitive gifts with people for some of what involves my highest excitement. I was sharing that. All right. Then I… I found myself irritated, ‘cause people start to use it as a crutch instead of… all right, fixing their own.
Bashar
Why would you get irritated instead of having compassion for them? To recognize that the only reason they would use something like that as a crutch is because they have their own fear-based issues, and they feel an emptiness within themselves that they don’t know how to fill. Anything you use as a crutch or an addiction is an attempt to fill a hole you feel within your spirit. But they simply don’t yet have an understanding of how to fill that by connecting to Source, by knowing that they are self-empowered beings. So getting irritated with that reaction only reinforces the vibration of their inability to not get it.
Asker
Yeah. Yeah. But I was wondering if it’s kind of selfish. Because selfish? Well, because now I just kind of… I use it for myself. And in a case of emergencies, I’ll tell a… tell friends or family to do something different so they don’t attract…
Bashar
You may always suggest to anyone your particular perspective. The only thing that’s selfish is if you expect that they must listen. That’s arrogant. You are there to give them an opportunity to see that there might be another option by being an example of it. Getting irritated means that you expect that they should, which cancels out the gift you have just given them. So you’re not doing them any favors by being irritated. You’re just there to demonstrate, to offer. Anything else is selfish and arrogant, because you have no business deciding for them what they should or shouldn’t believe.
Asker
Okay. It… it wasn’t necessarily what they should. Well, maybe it was. Yeah. It was. Let’s be honest. Would be no other reason for you to be irritated other than that you have an expectation that they’re supposed to listen. That they’re supposed to get it. Just think how irritated we would be. Oh, yeah. For all the people on your planet that don’t get what we’re saying. I know. I spoke to you three times. So I can imagine.
Bashar
But you see, we don’t get irritated. Because, and I know this is going to sound a little funny, it doesn’t mean we don’t care about you. We love you unconditionally. But we don’t care whether you listen to us. I do what I do because this is who I am. This is what excites me. This is my passion. I know that because it’s my passion, someone is going to listen, and someone is going to get it. And that’s the… the only one I need to care that gets it. I don’t have to care whether anyone else gets it, because I’m not doing it so you will get it. I’m doing it because this is who I am. And because I understand how this works, I know that some of you will get it, and that’s good enough. Because the rest that don’t get it aren’t going to get it anyway from me. They’ll get it somewhere else. And I know that too. So it’s not like it has to be my job to make sure you get it. The one that will make sure eventually that you get it is called Life. You’ll get it eventually because you live. You exist. You’ll get it. You don’t have to get it now. There’s no rush. There’s no hurry. You’re infinite, eternal beings. Yeah. Yeah. Wow. Doesn’t that feel more relaxed?
Asker
Yeah. Now I want to add my intuitive abilities back into my work for other people.
Bashar
By all means.
Asker
Because I guess I was getting a message and talking to their guys, and they didn’t listen, or I would get upset. But now I realize it doesn’t matter. I just… and it doesn’t help.
Bashar
I love it. It doesn’t help if you get upset. You have to understand that getting upset is actually completely counterproductive to what it is you’re doing. It’s like saying, “Here’s a gift. Oh, no, not really. Here’s a gift. Oh, no, not really.” Stop messing with them. Give them the gift and walk away. When you give someone a gift, it’s no longer any of your business what they do with it. Is it?
Asker
No. Thank you.
Bashar
Okay. So you’re giving gifts, not ultimatums, not conditions. You’re giving gifts freely. Does that help?
Asker
Yes. It does. Thank you. Thanks. And one more. Um, question. Third. Maybe. Maybe my third one. Right in my house currently, you know, my husband and I were both into this kind of work. And when we do it, it works. It works out. But I noticed there’s like this energy exchange that goes back and forth between you and me and my husband, where one of us will be making progress on our destiny, so to speak, and then the other will try to distract the other from like… get…
Bashar
That’s how you do it. That’s how you work with each other. You reflect to each other exactly what you needed that moment to test each other and see if you’ve actually learned what you say you’ve learned.
Oh. Oh.
So, so, the key is—learned. Oh. Oh. So, so, the key is to not go back into the old vibration and blame.
It’s not what happens; it’s what you do with what happens.
The measure of change is not whether the outside changes. The measure of change is whether you respond differently, even if the outside still looks the same.
Because if you’re basing how you feel on what happens on the outside, then your change is conditional. It’s not really a change. And therefore, why should the outside change? Because you really haven’t.
But when you say, “This is what I prefer, and it doesn’t matter what the outside looks like,” now you’ve proven that you’ve changed.
And when you’ve proven you’ve changed, the outside usually changes. Not because you need it to, just because the outside has no choice but to change when you have actually changed.
When you’ve proven you’ve changed by not caring whether the reflection changes or not.
Ego, Soul, and Channeling
Asker
Yeah. Sure. Hello. Any you good day? Um, I have to say that this is really exciting.
Bashar
So well, if you have to say it, then by all means, say it.
Asker
Well, you know, following your highest excitement, yes. And, um, I guess I’m up here, and before at the beginning of lunch, I heard, “Don’t say what you know; say what you feel.” All right. And so I’m kind of like improvising right now in the moment, ‘cause I wrote down so many things that were coming to me. Yes. And have questions. But I’m just going to see what naturally kind of comes out.
Bashar
By all means.
Asker
Um, so I am, as we all are, kind of like channels and intuitives. Everyone is. Yeah. And just a matter of awakening to that fact. Yeah. And so one thing I noticed, like, being here, and like, when you were tuning in in the beginning, I… I felt like what was going on in Daryl’s body, and it was like a really… it was a really cool thing. Yes. And I’ve been feeling things shifting in my body and and clearing.
Bashar
Well, yes. Of course. Remember that. Yeah. When the connection is made, the channel is functioning as a reflection of our frequency to whatever degree is relevant in your reality. And his electromagnetic field will take on those frequencies, which many of you will then sense. And you will either match it or you’ll do something else with it. But the channel’s body during these events does radiate something that is closer to our frequency.
Asker
Yeah. So what I’m realizing, and I’m kind of synthesizing this in the moment, is that making that change in belief, yes, can really come from a physical realm. And I… I live… come from anywhere. Yeah. And yeah. I guess, ‘cause I… I’m kind of very empathetic. Permission slips. I like that. I’m a… I’m a singer. So that was cool to…
Bashar
You. We thought you would appreciate the frequency.
Asker
Thank you. So in that realm. So my next thing is that I felt like I heard you in the back of my head. And I’m wondering if that was my… like, during lunch, or was that you?
Bashar
That’s what I thought. Like, sometimes you put like… by… by you, I mean mine. My higher self gives myself permission to hear something through a voice of somebody who I think knows more than me. You may use me as a permission slip to allow the voice to seem familiar, but it’s still you. Okay.
Asker
That’s what I thought. Yes. So, but I do in meditation sometimes I can sense that it is me, and sometimes it is another. Like, I have different guides I work with. And other… but it’s still you. Because the other still has to come through you. It’s just that the you is now taking on the vibration of the other. But it’s still you. In order to reach you, you mean? Like, the message that’s coming through is a message that I know, but that person’s stepping in kind of like as an intermediary.
Bashar
To look at your own telephones. Okay. You know that the person speaking to you on the phone, mh, their voice at their end is not what you’re hearing at your end. It’s been converted into electronic signals, beamed to a satellite, beamed to your phone, reconverted into acoustic signals. Okay. Acoustic vibrations. It’s not the original voice, but it’s your phone doing it. So even though you may be in contact with another entity, the other entity still has to allow you to alter your frequency in such a way as to translate the other entity’s vibration using your own energy.
Asker
Interesting. I’m feeling right now that I’m going to get more of the message later, and it’ll make sense. And as soon as you just said that frequency, there was a buzzing in my left ear, and now it just went away. All right. So that was pretty cool. Yes. Um, okay. I have a… a actual question now. In actual question. All right. I’m feeling it. Um, so the thing with excitement… yes. So there’s kind of like a… like a soul-deep excitement. And then there’s like an… I don’t know, kind of like a surface ego excitement. Yes. Kind of. There can be. Can you kind of elaborate on that? Because I feel my one of my things is that I can be too dualistic and feeling like there’s fighting excitements.
Bashar
Or do you understand that creation is not a duality? It’s a trinity. There is always a balance point in the center. Find the balance point in the center, and you will understand what the differences are in the different frequencies that you are experiencing.
Asker
Ah. Like I’m feeling the different possibilities of excitement.
Bashar
Yes. The different levels. The different expressions of it that are relevant for the different levels that exist.
Asker
So one thing that I’m hard on myself about is, oh, you have to choose the wrong… the right one. Like, the highest one. The best one. And that causes me a lot of anxiety and keeps me from doing things.
Bashar
Will always choose the best one at any given moment that is relevant for you in the level that you’re operating on.
Asker
Well, so with that, there’s like the feeling of, oh, this is like not my highest calling or my highest destiny, but I want to do it anyway. And am I interpreting that right, or am I putting a judgment on it? Say it again. Yeah. I don’t even understand what I just said. Actually.
Bashar
Well, that’s a good sign.
Asker
Um, well, like, okay. So it’s like I’m going to use a really… like, maybe I should speak a little bit more your language. I said I’m just kind of like channeling all of this in the moment, too. So this is fun. Um, yes. Now, what was the question, really? Okay. So something else is coming. Yes. Is there really a difference between my ego and my soul?
Bashar
Yes. Your ego is the structure that focuses your soul in a way that allows it to experience what you call physical reality. The ego structure, just by itself, its job is just to give you a physical experience. As we have often said, the analogy is sort of similar to a diving mask. If you’re going to dive into the ocean, it’s… it’s going to be a little blurry unless you wear a diving mask that sharpens the image for you. So the ego is simply the diving mask. It’s not designed to tell you what to do or where to go. It’s only designed to give you the experience that you decide to have in the clearest possible way. So when you overload the diving mask with all these ideas that it’s supposed to be in charge of everything, the diving mask will, in a sense, resent that because it’s not built for that. And that’s what turns it into the negative ego. And that’s when the diving mask cracks.
Asker
Huh. So kind of what you’re saying is like the ego… it’s a personality structure. Yeah. And the thing you just said about being in control, so that’s usually what a lot of us want to be, and what the ego wants to do. But you’re saying the ego actually doesn’t want to do that, because that’s not even necessar… J correct. It’s not what it’s designed to do. That’s so cool. So we’re… oh, so we’re like doing it to ourselves.
Bashar
Yes. Yes. You are. Because of the things you’ve been taught. The way you’ve been taught to think about yourselves quite often is exactly backwards from the way you really need to think about yourselves. The personality structure is like a three-sided prism. And it is that prism that breaks down the white light, the unbroken light of your consciousness, into the spectrum of your experience you call physical reality. But that’s its job. That’s it. It gives you that breakdown experience so you can experience time and space and process and change and discovery from a new point of view.
Asker
Like a rainbow.
Bashar
Exactly. And that’s its job. And that’s it. It’s not designed to determine what you should do with that rainbow.
Asker
H. That’s really cool. And you… that’s why you listen and go in the moment and excitement. Because it’s a process, and you don’t know everything at once. And you’re not… and you’re not supposed to. Even if you have intuition, it’s like, ‘cause that’s that’s another thing I’m hard on myself. Like, oh, you should know, and blah, blah, blah, blah. But I shouldn’t know.
Bashar
Not necessarily. You will know what you need to know when you need to know it. Right. Right.
That’s why we, in our civilization, have absolutely no memory. We just know that we will know what we need to know when we need to know it. And we do. Period.
We don’t have to remember anything. The information is just there when we need it. Not a second before we need it, but not a second later than we need it. Just there in perfect timing.
That’s why our civilization functions on what we call Pure Synchronism.
And everybody’s following their highest excitement. Absolutely. And everything works, and everything dovetails, and everything fits.
Just again, like if you have a picture puzzle, all the pieces that form that big picture have a certain shape. And only by retaining their real shape do they all fit together to form the big picture.
The trouble comes when you try to change the shape of the piece into something it’s not. Then it doesn’t fit in the picture. Yeah.
That’s the struggle that you all feel. Is the struggle of trying to be someone you’re not.
You think it’s the hardest thing in the world to be yourself. That’s actually the easiest thing in the world. But you’ve been taught the opposite.
So you try all sorts of things that are not you, and you wonder why you’re exhausted all the time.
It’s exhausting trying to be someone you’re not. It’s effortless and energizing to be who you actually are.
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