Dare to Dream

Many people on your planet have dreams that they imagine can unfold in their lives.

But often, the definitions and beliefs that you hold on to hold you back from taking action on those dreams.

The definitions:

• create all sorts of reasons why it won’t work
• make things more difficult than they need to be
• create obstacles that seem insurmountable

But a lot of that happens because of the conditions that you place upon your dreams, your excitement, your passion.

Acting on your passion is to do it for its own sake, not because:

• of where you think it will lead
• it has to have a particular outcome
• the thing that excites you in that moment has to come to fruition or create a manifestation of a particular sort

By acting on your passion to the best you’re able with zero insistence on what the outcome ought to be or why it’s happening that way, you then stay in the moment and allow things to unfold in the most natural way, the most synchronistic way.

Synchronicity is the organizing principle that will bring you the circumstances, situations, and opportunities that are required for you to continue to act on your excitement in exactly the correct order at exactly the correct time that those circumstances and situations and opportunities need to appear in your life.

But the key to allowing that to flow naturally, automatically, smoothly, effortlessly, joyfully—the key is the very first word in the formula: Act on your passion.

Many people will allow themselves to sort of drift in their dreams, spend time daydreaming about things that could be, imagine certain scenarios and wish they could come true. But the idea is: you have created for yourself by choice a physical experience.

Therefore, in order to ground the idea of your passion, to ground and connect that energy to your physical reality experience, it is important—critical—to actually take some kind of physical action on your dream.

Very often, again, sometimes this may simply be because of the definitions that you’re buying into. But it matters not, for the purpose of this illustration, that you may feel like there is nothing necessarily you can do to take action on the thing itself that you are imagining is representative of your dream. But that doesn’t mean you can’t take action. There is always some action you can take in some way, shape, or form if you will open your imagination wide enough. It may not necessarily be the kind of action you may take should a certain opportunity appear in your life, but it still needs to be activated by you. The formula needs to be activated. You need to throw the switch.

So even if there is not an action you can see that you could take that is the kind of action you think would be representative of the thing you say excites you, you need to use your imagination to figure out and create what kind of an action would at least be symbolically representative. That will start the ball rolling. That will be enough to complete the circuit and allow the energy to begin to flow. And once the energy is flowing, then it will begin to accelerate things and allow synchronicity to function as the organizing principle, bringing you the next thing you need and the next thing you need and the next thing you need.

Each of which will appear in your life by containing a little bit more excitement than any other option. And they don’t have to come in a form that looks like it has anything at all to do with what you imagine to be representative of your passion. All you need to do is pay attention to whether or not the passion and excitement is there in that thing that has arrived in front of your face. It is the thread of excitement and passion to follow, not the form in which it comes. Because you never know exactly why it needed to come in the form that it has. Sometimes, because of the definitions and reasons and conditions that you may have placed upon your dreams, in the way that you may have chosen to limit yourselves consciously or unconsciously, sometimes your excitement has to be delivered in a way that may look like it has nothing at all to do with the dream. But the excitement knows it is the thing that will allow you to move. It is the thing that will inspire you to take some action so that you will then wind up in the place you need to be to actually receive what you need to receive that then may truly be connected to your dream.

So that’s why you have to have absolutely no insistence or assumption about acting on your passion. Because sometimes the form in which it comes may not necessarily need to come to fruition; it may just be the thing that gets you to move so you will wind up in the place where you need to receive the things you really need to receive.

Now, the idea of action again, as we have discussed from time to time, can even be symbolic. Because when you infuse an action with the same level of excitement and passion energy that would be present were you acting on the thing itself that you may have visualized as your ideal scenario, the energy of that excitement itself is what will allow your body to read the thing you’re doing, the action you’re taking, as real. It’s the excitement energy level that your body reads, not really the form in which the excitement comes. We know that sometimes you can attach all sorts of expectations to the form, but the body consciousness itself will respond to the energy before it will respond to the form. That’s the first wave that you will receive. The first wave that will come to you will be the energy wave itself from your higher mind through your heart, then to your mind, then to your eyes.

So the idea is to allow yourself to go with the flow of the feeling, to go as you say with your gut, and allow yourself to generate the vibratory energy that your body will respond to as if the scenario you are creating is as real as anything in your physical reality. And once you allow your body to practice getting trained to respond to that vibration, it will be much easier for your vibration to drop all the things that are impediments and in the way, and attract and let through to you the idea that is physically representative of that frequency. Again, it may not look like you think, but it will be exactly what you need.

The Permission Slip: Drawing and Burning

So by way of example, by way of permission slip, we have a suggestion that can help train you into really paying attention to how to feel your way through this by taking an action that will generate the proper state of being that will get your body to be the most receptive antenna it can be and the most powerful transmitter it can be for the specific vibrational energy of what it is you need in your life that is representative of your ability and your path to live your dreams.

So you have to be willing to dare to take that action. It may sometimes seem very silly on the surface. It may seem to have nothing at all to do with what you say you’re passionate about. But as long as it is at least to some degree in your imagination symbolically representative of it, your body will pay attention to it as if it was the actual physical thing.

So we would suggest, as we have before but now in a different way, we will say that if you can find no particular action to take on the thing itself, allow yourself to create the following permission slip: Get a pad of paper, get some pens or pencils, whatever medium you prefer, or paint, and allow yourself to draw, to the best of your ability—it doesn’t matter, you do not have to be Leonardo DaVinci—draw to the best of your ability a representational scenario of your visualization of an ideal outcome.

Now we’ve talked about visualization and how to use it by letting the visualization pump you up to the proper energy level and then dropping the picture so that you’re creating a space that the higher mind can fill based on the energy that the visualization allowed you to create within yourself. So this is another way of doing this that’s a little bit more physical for you, so you actually have some physical activity rather than just keeping the visualization in your head, in your imagination, in your mind’s eye.

So when you have your visualization of the so-called ideal scenario, first of course understand that it is simply a symbolic representation, but draw it out. Actually draw it out to the best you are able physically so that you actually can see it with your physical eyes. When you do that, when you’ve done it to your satisfaction, when it feels correct to you that you have included everything in there that to you represents the ideal scenario, when you’ve included everything that when you look at the picture gets you really, really excited about that manifestation, allow yourself then to take that physical picture and burn it. Burn it up. Watch it burn. Watch it crumble. Watch it go up in smoke.

And understand that at that moment, every single thing about that scenario and every single thing in that image has been encoded in the smoke. And let the smoke rise to the heights and let it spread far and wide. Don’t burn your house down! Let it spread safely far and wide. And let yourself know that now every single bit of that idea is now encoded in the atmosphere around you. It is now spreading out farther and farther. Even though you may no longer be able to see the smoke after it dissipates, it is spreading out as a bubble farther and farther in your physical world. And all it takes is one little atom to find where it needs to go. It will find its path. They will all find their path.

And that will allow you to know that you are actually creating a physical connection of that vibrational scenario to your physical reality. And those little atoms will be going out and being your guides, your scouts, connecting to what they need to connect to to create pathways back to you, trails like dropping breadcrumbs back to you of all the elements that you truly need. Again, they may not necessarily look like things in the picture, but when they come to you and contain that passion, more excitement than any other option at that moment, you will know that you are receiving the response, you are receiving the echo, you are receiving the connection, you are receiving the message that comes from what you have sent out. That atom by atom is connecting to all the things it needs to connect to, all the people it needs to connect with, and bringing back along that connective line to you, vibrationally, in that smoke, in those atoms, all of the energy, all of the things you need to allow you to call to yourself every single representation, every single symbolic representation of what was in that idealized picture.

Again, it may not look the same. It might, but it may not. But it is by the feeling you shall recognize the opportunity as being connected to that picture and being the response of what you sent those atoms of smoke out to connect to.

Does this sound like fun? I beg your pardon? Again, the idea is to also remember to act on your passion in the most passionate way. To be passionate about being passionate. For that is the precursor state to everything that really needs to happen in your life. Passion, excitement is your body’s physical translation of the vibrational energy of your true essential being. So when you are willing in any way to act on your passion, even symbolically, to entrain your body consciousness to recognize and get familiar through practice with that frequency, you will allow yourself to truly shift to a different reality that is far more representative of who you are, a far more representative reflection of who you truly prefer to be. And you will be most aligned with your vibration, your true essential vibration, just like that compass needle pointing to your magnetic north.

None of what we’re saying here is philosophy. This is physics. Vibrational energy physics. We are simply giving you a different kind of switch with which to turn on your light and allow yourself to be able to see clearly that it will be reflected back to you because there is nowhere else for it to go but here and now with you. Make sense? All right. So have fun with it. The most fun you can have. Again, don’t worry how the picture looks as long as it is representative to you about the idea of the ideal scenario that you might be seeing in your imagination or your mind’s eye. It will do just fine. And in fact, some of you may find that you’ll have fun actually laughing at your own pictures. That can be part of it, and that’s fine. So do it if you wish, but take the action. See what happens. Many of you might be very surprised to see how quickly things might accelerate. Because after all, when you burn things, what are you doing? You’re accelerating the molecules. Therefore, that can be itself the representation of your acceleration, a reflection of the raising of your frequency. Yes, not to burn you out, but so that you actually can burst forth into the world in a dynamic way.

Questions

Uranus Frequency and Poker

Asker

I was doing some like math, basic math, with five ratio and times it 128, and it came really close to the Uranus frequency when it’s an audible hearing. Um, yes. Is there any correlation to that? Like, is…

Bashar

Yes, of course. The idea is that you’re allowing the vibration that leads you into deep mystery to discover hidden things within yourself. That’s what that reflection is representative of in the collective consciousness of your planet.

Asker

The whole energy of Uranus, I feel like there’s even some correlation with the Earth frequency. It’s like the correlation with everything that reflects back to you.

Bashar

Of course. There has to be, otherwise you wouldn’t even be aware that the frequency exists if there was no correlation. So yes, there has to be. The Earth vibration has to have some representative feedback to that vibration in order for you to be able to take advantage of the reflection. So yes, of course. But the point is, it symbolically, archetypally represents a specific frequency that has to do with revealing hidden mysteries within your consciousness.

Asker

I play poker and it’s very exciting for me. I very much enjoy that. And had a few experiences recently while playing where it really seems as if… uh, so, so basically I had an understanding of how thoughts turn to things. Like people often speak of how you create your own reality with your thoughts.

Bashar

And yes, not so much thoughts, but your beliefs. Your thoughts are actually secondary to that. They are a reflection of what you believe to be true in your definitions. But we understand that that can be a shorthand. Okay? So the beliefs are at the center, so to speak, and the thoughts and the physical manifestations come thereafter.

Asker

Yes. Okay. Although again, not always in the way that you may think, because you don’t always know exactly what the best possible way is for that manifestation to occur that really serves you. Sometimes you think you know the best way, but that’s not always the case. You have to just let it come in the way that actually serves you. You have to know that whatever does happen is what needed to happen at that moment to take you through whatever process actually will get you where you really need to be.

Bashar

That is well said.

Asker

I’ve also had some experiences like that, I think. Um, cool. Yeah. Um, so what I was going to touch on was… uh, while playing poker I’ve had the experience of seeing how my vibrational state, which I guess I equated to what my thoughts were in that moment—may not have exactly been that, but… um, that’s all right. Yeah. It was interesting to see how just this… there’s like a very delicate balance of how to be in, I guess, what you’ve coined the term of the “balance point.” Yes. Um, and how that actually results in me having the results that I would like to have.

Bashar

Conditions? Yes, it can often do that. But you can’t insist on it, otherwise you’re not in the balance point.

Asker

True. I’ve also had losing experiences in poker, you know, losing… my losing at the game where I was still in that balance point.

Bashar

Yes. And you can still learn something from that.

Asker

Yeah. And I did. And that was also quite profound. Yes, it is. But I’d be lying to myself if I said that I didn’t prefer to win.

Bashar

That’s a preference. Preference is one thing, yeah. Yeah. And insistence is something else. Insistence is resistance.

Asker

Yes. That’s… that’s… preference is just a neutral observation of what is more aligned with your frequency. That’s all. So there doesn’t need to be any insistence with it because it’s the natural thing that aligns with you. It is a neutral preference. You don’t really have any judgment on it as to the idea of how the manifestation needs to occur, because you simply know that whatever is happening is actually part of your preference, even if it looks like it’s not. You see, sometimes people will manifest things they don’t prefer, but that may be there for a good reason. And therefore, manifesting something you don’t prefer may actually be what you prefer because of what it will teach you.

Bashar

Yes. You understand absolutely. If nothing else, sometimes manifesting what you don’t prefer will give you more clarity by contrast to what you do prefer. And that’s a more positive way to use what you don’t prefer.

Asker

Yes, yes. I agree entirely with that.

Bashar

Oh, all right. And so the balance point that you are talking about and allowing yourself to remain in that balance point is what actually gives you, to use your own terminology, the best possible poker face.

Asker

Well said.

Bashar

Um, yeah. So, uh, because then nobody knows what you’re thinking because you almost aren’t thinking at all. Yes. There’s… so the best way to prevent people from knowing what you’re thinking is to stop thinking. It’s hard to argue with.

Asker

I’d have to agree. Um, this is taking the game to a whole new level. It… yeah, it is. Um, I’ve really felt that way over the recent past, but this is, I guess, an affirmation of kind of already what I’ve sort of experienced. I didn’t… I suppose need an affirmation, but I just thought it would be a fun thing to share with you all.

Bashar

Right. Thank you.

Asker

Yeah, absolutely. Um, anything else?

Bashar

Yes.

Asker

So I had… um, a really fascinating experience. Um, I drank Ayahuasca a couple weeks ago. And talk about playing poker… uh, I’m not sure I catch the reference. Well, it’s not in the negative sense. A gamble, but you are allowing a lot of other beings to see your cards.

Bashar

Okay. Yes. Well, I kind of had assumed they were benevolent, so I wasn’t that concerned.

Asker

Oh, yes. I’m not saying or suggesting that they’re not. Yeah. Um, yeah, no. There was definitely… um, some cards being turned up, to say the least. Um, so I want to share one thing in particular, but before I get to that, um, I’ll just say that the main message I received was basically just to not be ashamed to be human.

Bashar

I thought, why should you be? Yeah.

Asker

Well, exactly. But… um, it kind of took that experience to allow me to realize that there was some sense of shame.

Bashar

Yes. And for many people on your planet, they are ashamed of being who they are, whether that means human or the personalities that they deem themselves to be, all of which are nothing but projections anyway.

Asker

Yeah, I agree with that.

Bashar

So congratulations.

Asker

Thank you. Um, on discarding that one. That was a good… fun. Um, yeah. So the thing I found especially interesting was… um, at one point in the night, I… I got up, uh, to use the restroom. Yes. And in the… um, the dimly lit restroom, um, when I went to the sink to wash my hands, I looked in the mirror and I saw my own reflection. And it kind of hit me in that moment what you’d mentioned in a previous transmission about looking in the mirror and seeing a parallel reality version of yourself that isn’t actually you. It’s someone slightly different. Yes. And it felt very apparent to me in that moment, without having previously thought about this idea, that’s what that was. Yes. And that was really cool. And I kind of like looked and smiled at, quote-unquote, “myself.” And, uh, yeah, I just knew there was some like subtle difference. I couldn’t tell quite what it was, but I felt like that other individual also felt the same way. It was… it was very interesting.

Bashar

You can create that kind of a reflection which can amplify itself back and forth and back and forth and allow both you and the parallel version of you to shift in a very accelerated way from that point forward. You can use it that way.

Balancing Logic and Emotion

Asker

My question is about how to balance, uh, my logical mind with my emotional mind. Yeah. Because I find I seem… IQ with EQ… mhm. I seem to get out of balance. Either you seem…

Bashar

Or do you choose to? Which way feels more self-empowered? Choosing? Because if you’re choosing to be out of balance, at least you know you’re in control of that and can change it. When you say, “Well, I seem to be,” you’re giving up your power to some random concept that doesn’t allow you to know that there is any probability of really changing that. So the first step in changing it is to admit and take responsibility for having chosen it, because then you’re in power to change it. Now you may not know why you chose it. That’s fine. But it will be in your unconscious mind somewhere, a definition that made it seem logical to choose that.

Bashar

That’s what we have described before as the motivational mechanism within all of you. This is a given law: You will always, always, always move in the direction of what you believe to be in your best interest. You will always immediately and automatically move away from what you believe is not in your best interest. So if you can see yourself choosing things that you know are not in your best interest, and you understand the motivational mechanism we’ve just described, that can only mean that you must be making what is in your best interest seem to not be, or what is not in your best interest seem to be. That’s the only reason you would choose something that’s not in your best interest: is you have a definitional belief attached to it that makes it seem to be better than the alternative. You understand?

Bashar

Because if people, for example, are afraid to move ahead on their excitement because they have a belief that something bad will happen to them, and they believe that not moving is a safer bet, they will stay where they are. They will keep choosing the safer bet because they have attached to their excitement a negative definition of the outcome. So you’ll avoid it at all costs. When you realize that that may be the kind of definition you’ve attached to it, you will realize that doesn’t make sense. It’s illogical. And as soon as you realize there’s no reason to attach a negative definition to your excitement, then that definition is gone and you can start choosing things that you know are in your best interests. Mh. Because you will have cleared out the definitions that would make it seem otherwise. Is this making some sense?

Asker

It is making some sense. Can you apply it to any specific definitions within you that would allow you to choose things you know… or not necessarily in your best interest?

Bashar

I guess I would have to become more conscious of all my choices, I guess.

Asker

So well, let me ask you this question, because again, this is usually the one for your people that will typically—not always, but typically—reveal what the definition is, the fear-based definition is. And the question is: If you were to actually move forward on your passion in life, what are you afraid might happen? What are all the reasons you create for yourself to not move in the direction of your preference, of your excitement, of your passion?

Bashar

Running out of money. Running out of money.

Asker

Oh, all right. Are you saying that that’s not an exciting thing? It could be. It could be the best thing that ever happened to you. How do you know that’s a good point? It could be. You see, this goes back to what we say about your definitions. Because we understand… we understand how things work on your world in general. But the idea is that many of you become way too focused on one particular way in which things work when there are other ways, and you’re not allowing your definition to be broad enough to include the other ways.

Bashar

When you focus only on one symbol of abundance, such as money—not invalidating it, not discounting it at all, but it’s only one symbol—there are other symbols of abundance, other symbols of support. But when you only focus on one as if that’s the most important one, you are closing the doors through which other forms of support and abundance could come, because you’re saying you won’t recognize them if it’s not this. “I can’t be supported. I don’t understand how I could possibly be supported if it doesn’t come in this form.” That’s a very limiting and restrictive belief system.

Bashar

But when you understand that abundance is simply one of the natural tools of excitement, and it will bring you whatever form of abundance and support you need to continue to act on your excitement, then you can relax your definition and open all the windows and doors and let abundance come in all its forms. Sometimes somebody may just give you something. That’s a form of abundance, you know. Mhm. Yes, yes. Sometimes synchronicity will bring you information that you need at exactly the right time. That’s a form of abundance, you know. Yes. So why not let more forms of abundance come into your life rather than worrying that you might lose one particular form?

Asker

That sounds like a good idea.

Bashar

Well, I thank you. The idea is that if money needs to be there, then the right amount of money will come. But it may not be sufficient to allow for the big picture. But the rest of the other forms of abundance will fill the other spaces. So sometimes it may be, well, you just need this much money, and you need this much gift, and you need this much synchronicity, and all together you’ve got your support. Mh. If it needs to be all money, that’s what will come, because that will be the path of least resistance. But your first clue that it might not be the path of least resistance is: it’s not coming. That’s your moment to look around and go, “Could there be other forms of abundance that I could allow in?” That’s where your imagination opens up. Because when you’re on the level of the vibration of your passion, you will actually be capable of thinking of, imagining other things that might bring other forms of abundance in. But if you’re only focused on one form, you are actually not only closing the door to other forms of abundance, you’re closing the doors in your imagination to being even capable of imagining how other forms of abundance could come to you. So you will not even conceive of opportunities you could be acting on that could give you everything you need, because you will not allow them to be visible because you’re not in the correct frequency. Mh.

Bashar

You cannot perceive what you’re not the vibration of first. This is just physics. Mh. You have to be that frequency first, and when you are, all sorts of things that are commensurate with that frequency will come to you. You’ll think of things other people might call the things you imagine crazy, but that doesn’t mean they won’t work for you. They don’t have to work for them; they just need to work for you. Mhm. Is this making some sense? Definitely. Is this helping a lot? All right. Anything else?

Asker

Um, so do you think it would be wise to just follow my highest excitement and not be concerned with societal, uh, expectations?

Bashar

Let me think about that for a moment. Please understand this: The philosophies you think are what you’re hearing are not philosophies. We are actually giving you literally an instruction manual for how reality works. We’re literally giving you formulas you follow. Yes. It is no different when we say, “Act on your highest passion every moment that you can to the best of your ability, taking it as far as you can until you can take it no further, with zero insistence or assumption as to what the outcome ought to be.” That is literally an energy formula. It is physics. It’s an instruction manual. It will activate everything you need. It will leave nothing out. It will give you all the tools in the kit of excitement because it’s a complete kit, and nothing relevant will be left out. And all you have to do is remain in a positive state no matter what happens, and you will get the beneficial effect. This is an instruction manual. Absolutely no different. No different at all than if someone gave you an instruction manual to operate a piece of machinery, to learn how to drive one of your automobiles. You would say, “Ah, the instruction says find the key. Oh, this must be the key. There’s a picture of it. Yes, looks just like it. Put it in the slot called the ignition. Oh, all right. Put it in. Turn it this way. Turn it this way. The engine will… will start. Yes, I hear it started. Now step on the brake. I step on the brake. That’s that one according to the instruction manual. Put the car in gear. Okay, that must mean this thing here. And now step on the gas. The car should move. Oh, yes, it’s doing that. Why is it doing all of that? Because I followed the instruction manual. Simple as that.”

Bashar

What we are giving you is literally a description of how reality works. It’s literally an instruction manual. So if you actually do it as precisely as you can, like you would for any instruction manual, you will see that reality is already working. The instruction manual we’re giving you doesn’t mean it’s not working. The instruction manual we’re giving you is giving you an opportunity to experience that it already works in a positive way for you instead of a negative way. Because synchronicity is always working, but you can experience negative synchronicity or positive synchronicity. Does that make sense?

Asker

Yes.

Bashar

So if you really understand that this is an instruction manual and you just follow the instructions just as you would with any machine, you will see it’s that simple. It works.

Asker

Um, what if you follow the instruction manual and follow your highest excitement and you end up in a less than preferable state?

Bashar

The absolute crux of the issue that all of you have difficulty with. When you say, “If I follow my excitement, what if something less than exciting happens?” What you have to realize is what you’ve just said is not a definition of excitement. It’s a different definition. You follow me? To say, “I am acting on my excitement but something can happen that’s not representative of my excitement,” is not a definition of your excitement. By definition, when you are in your excitement, nothing can happen that you don’t find exciting. Even if it’s what you don’t prefer, you find it exciting because you know that to stay in that state means you will extract the benefit from it.

Bashar

So to say something bad can happen when I’m acting in my excitement, when I’m in my state of excitement, is an oxymoron. It’s a contradictory definition. It’s not a definition of excitement; it’s a definition of a completely different reality experience. The reality experience of, “I think I’m acting my excitement, but I find out I’m not.” That’s the definition you just gave me. It’s not a definition of excitement. So that’s why it’s so important to be clear about your definitions. Your definitions about your definitions. Your definitions have to be purely representative of the state that we’re talking about, or they’re not that state. Your definitions will be only commensurate with whatever state is reflective of the definition you’re creating, and that’s a different state and a different reality experience altogether. Yes, yes. Is that making some sense?

Asker

Yes. I… I guess what happened… I followed my excitement and then I, uh, didn’t get what you preferred… didn’t get what I prefer.

Bashar

But why should you? That’s what I’m saying. You see, when we talk again about acting on your passion, it has to be done for its own sake, not because of what you think is supposed to happen. Because as I said, sometimes you will get things that objectively, neutrally, you may recognize are not things you prefer. But you have to know it’s there for a positive reason. If you’re actually in a positive state. If you don’t know it’s there for a positive reason, you’re not in a positive state. I understand. You have to know that no matter how it looks, no matter how it was created, no matter what anyone else’s opinion is about it, you, by staying in a positive state, can only extract a positive and beneficial effect from that circumstance, from that manifestation. The bottom line is: It doesn’t matter what happens. It only matters what you do with what happens. That’s what matters. The circumstance doesn’t create the material; the state of being does. Mhm. Is this making sense? Yes. Are you sure? Yes. All right. We’ll see. We will. Thank you so much. Thank you.

Bashar

All of these concepts and all of these instructions in the instruction manual are actually very simple once you get the hang of it, once you practice, once you wrap your mind around understanding them as a literal instruction manual. It will not seem complicated at all.

Grief, Suicide, and Parallel Realities

Asker

First, I’m excited to be here, and I appreciate the opportunity. It feels like this was a synchronicity that I needed at this point. I’m… yes, experiencing a really challenging period in my life.

Bashar

Congratulations. How exciting. Challenges are representative of the themes you chose to explore in this life. Challenges don’t have to be negative. Challenges can be defined as fun.

Asker

Part of what I’m thankful for is the fact that over time I learned that sort of attitude from your teachings. Yes. But this particular challenge I’m having… yes, is not something that I’m finding well.

Bashar

Would you care to share some specifics?

Asker

My best friend and partner for my entire adult life… yes, committed suicide. All right. Because she spiraled out of control. Because I think that’s part of what I’m asking for… your… because she was never given the tools to understand how self-empowered she was. Understand. I tried to bridge that gap with her, and we made some friends who seemed to be synchronistically drawn to us at the time when we would need that kind of support, but it wasn’t enough. It did not… understand that when people are not raised understanding the tools, they also may not have the tool to understand the tools. In other words, they simply have created a reality where they make it incapable of learning the tools. That can be one of the things that they’ve learned, right? Is you can’t learn anything else. Yeah. That was… uh, she was pretty, pretty stuck. All right. But you understand now she’s…

Bashar

She is a free spirit and understands now the dynamics that happened in the life and understands how to add that knowledge to her spiritual growth.

Asker

Yes. You understand that she’s okay now? I struggle with that. Why? What are your beliefs about the idea of transitioning into Spirit? Um, so people have told me… Spirit. Um, so people have told me different things. I’ve heard that, such as people who commit suicide are stuck in a karmic loop where they have to resolve the thing that they refuse to acknowledge. Excuse me, you can’t hear it, but I’m laughing. Laugh.

Bashar

In that is an idea that someone can choose to experience, but it’s not an automatic thing. It’s only based on whatever the strongest beliefs are of the person who made the transition. Now, let’s give the most extreme scenario. In let’s just say religious terms, because that’s something relatively familiar to most of you, right? Many people feel that, all right, I’ve been a bad person, and when I die, I’m going to go to hell. Sure. Sure. Understand that in spirit, physical materiality, while it sort of can still be experienced in some way, is not really physical in the way you understand physicality. And time and space are much more flexible than what you experience in your physical life. Sure. So even if someone crossed over and found themselves standing in the fires of Hell, the instant—the instant—they went, “Oh, I really don’t prefer this at all,” they would be out of it. Because there’s no time lag in spirit. And that instant transition to something different would be the first lesson in understanding that it’s their choice to create their reality as they see fit.

Bashar

So while your friend may have at first experienced a little bit of a jolt of whatever the belief systems were that made it seem to be the logical choice to take her life, the instant—the instant—she realized that that was not necessarily something she preferred, she’ll experience something completely different. And most everyone will go through what you classically call Life Review. There’s no judgment on it. You just automatically understand all the things and all the choices and all the consequences of the choices, and you, in a sense, sort of re-experience them, but from a different point of view, a little bit more of a detached point of view. It’s kind of like sort of being given a refresher lesson about what happened and what you chose and what you did with it. But there’s no judgment on it. You will understand, “All right, well, you know, I made some choices that weren’t necessarily to my benefit in the way that they could have been, but I can still learn from that, and I can still grow from that, and therefore it’s okay.”

Bashar

And when people get into Spirit, one of the first things they experience is they really don’t want any of you to worry that they’re not okay, because they are okay. They really are okay. They really are.

Asker

I follow that she’s okay. I don’t feel okay.

Bashar

Well, I know. But that’s only because of your definitions of what’s going on. So the idea is to remove the limitations from your own definition so that you understand that sometimes the timing of one person who you are very close to going into spirit before you, no matter what the methodology they may have chosen, is an opportunity for you to stretch yourself to reconnect to them. So in other words, going into spirit is an invitation to you from her to reach for her. And that starts putting your attention more in the direction of the spiritual concepts that will actually assist you in life. Yeah. Absolutely. That’s why I’m here right now as well. Yes.

Bashar

So by allowing yourself to know that she is still in existence, closer than you think… Many of you are really only separated from the spirit realm by just about this much frequency. And in fact, it’s actually closer than that. Let me inform you of something. This is how it works. Understand that, in a sense, I’m just going to use these terms to make it an easy illustration. In a sense, spirit is your natural state. Physical reality is just a projection of consciousness. You never actually leave Spirit to become physical. Your spirit doesn’t leave the spirit realm and go into a physical body, right? You are still in spirit right now with her. You’ve never left. Neither of you ever left Spirit. You are just still dreaming that you’ve left. She’s woken up from that dream, but you’re both there. So she is interacting with you on a whole other level of yourself that is already in spirit. The more you raise your frequency to become more your version of the you that is always in spirit, the more sensitive your psychical senses will be to being capable of communicating with her in spirit, because you are already there with her and have never left. So you will start being able to see through the dream of physical reality, which is one of the reasons she left before you did, because you had an agreement that she would help you learn how to be more of yourself. And this is one of the ways in which she’s helping you do that, by reminding you through us that you are both in spirit right now and that you’re only dreaming that you’re not, and only dreaming that you’re separated, which you’re not.

Asker

Yeah. I have the intuition of that being true, and I feel that urge to reach to her. Then do so. And see what synchronicity brings you that will hone your senses so that in time you will actually know that you are communicating, and you will not feel that there is really any kind of a disconnect. Did I attract this circumstance to myself?

Bashar

Well, you both agreed to it. You both agreed that this is how it would work, that this is what you would need at this point in your life to elevate you to another level. We understand that from the physical human perspective it can at first feel painful, and that you can miss the person. We understand the concept of your grief, and we’re not invalidating it at all. We’re simply saying you can take that energy and understand that it is the energy you’re feeling of them. Many times, when you grieve, when you miss them, when you cry at what you perceive to be their absence, the paradox is: the reason you’re feeling that is because they’re actually with you. Do you understand? Many times when you remember them and you suddenly find yourself crying, that’s actually your reaction to the fact that they’re with you, because you’re interpreting the fact that they’re with you as they’re not being with you. And that’s why it goes into grief instead of actually feeling their energy and going, “Oh, you’re here.” Do you understand? They are actually present with you when you’re grieving. Right? That’s what you’re feeling. And that’s why you grieve. You grieve because you sense their presence, except you’re sensing it through a negative filter, a negative definition that they’re not with you.

Asker

Yeah. Yeah. It’s like… um, I have a strong belief in life extension and quality of life extension, so I imagined us living together for hundreds of years.

Bashar

You will live together forever, just not always in the same plane of existence at the same time. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be in touch. Would you grieve as much if she simply had moved to a different city than you?

Asker

No. I was mad the last time I saw her, and I would have still been mad if I hadn’t come to understand what happened to her after. All right. But again, moving into spirit is no different than moving to a different city. That’s all. It feels a lot more permanent. And why does it feel that way? Because of what you’ve been taught to believe about the idea of the difference between physical and non-physical reality, when there isn’t as much difference as you think. Right. That’s another tricky part of this is… um, so yes. Um, this has been a long process by which, over the last maybe two years, my life has changed dramatically. And she and I experienced a kind of mutual psychosis that left me searching for something, and yourself, most likely. I think I stumbled upon more of myself along the way. I experienced an improbable and delicate chain of synchronicities that, uh, led me to a new career. Yes. Coincidentally, I’m also… so now playing poker professionally. All right. Now let me ask you a question. Yeah. And by the way, this question actually comes from her. Who do you think helped you do that?

Bashar

I… how about some credit where credit is due? You weren’t alone in finding that path. She was with you and helped you turn here. Look at that. Pay attention to this. Look at that synchronicity. She’s been with you. She’s never really left. I’m not saying spirits hang around waiting for you to call them. They have lives of their own. But she will always be with you when you need her to be. And it’s easier for who to do that? Again, in spirit, because space and time are not barriers there. So again, when you feel the grief, feel it. That’s all right. Just understand that what you’re feeling is actually the energy of her presence. And that when you are grieving and crying and missing her, you are processing her energy to help you understand that she’s actually with you. If you actually start going fully through the grieving process, you will actually, at the end of the grieving process, when you finally let go of those definitions that are negative, negative, you will actually be able to feel her very strongly.

Asker

Yes. I did feel in the original difficulty that we shared together that it was… there was a way of understanding it that seemed very much like that she was beckoning me down some path that I didn’t understand.

Bashar

Yes. But again, it’s just so different than the concept of what I expected of my life to be.

Asker

Congratulations. Why would you want your life to be everything you expect it to be? How boring would that be? Well, I guess I know what’s going to happen for the next 50 years. I might as well kill myself. Yeah. But there could be… I could take some comfort in that. It’s like, can you really… no. Trust me, you won’t. Trust me, you won’t. You may think you will, but you won’t. As soon as you become restless, you’ll start looking for adventure. You’ll start looking for a challenge. You’ll know you’re not growing. And as soon as you know you’re not growing, you will feel like you’re dying. Yeah. Yeah. I went through that. And then you’ll start living. I wanted to die when I felt like I had put myself in a corner where my growth was no longer on the path that it could be the highest version of myself. Many of you will do that. You will put yourselves, force yourselves into a corner. Because when you’re in the corner, there’s nothing to do but turn around and see the way out. Now, again, if you’re not given the tools to do that, you may actually take yourself out because you don’t see… you can’t know that you can turn around and see the way out. But you had enough understanding, and she also helped you understand that you could simply turn around once you were in the corner and find your way toward her, toward the light, in your own way. Yes. Because if you actually did take yourself out, trust me, when you arrived in spirit, she’d be standing there going, “That wasn’t the point. You missed the point. I was trying to give you information to help you. You missed the point. Oh, well, let’s move on.”

Bashar

So don’t miss the point that she’s attempting to give you. Live. Live. Because there are many people who are physically alive who are dead inside. Don’t be a zombie unless you wish to be. No. Just remember that a real zombie doesn’t eat others; they eat themselves alive. Yes. Isn’t that a lovely thought? Keep walking. Keep moving forward. You’re fine. She’s fine. You’re working together still. Lighten up on yourself.

Asker

I know I need to lighten up on myself for sure.

Bashar

Then just do it. There is no reason not to, except the ones you create. Right. That would be her message to you. Just do it. It’ll be fine. Just do it. Trust her.

Asker

Yes. I just… um, the way that I connected with whatever flow of whatever essential quality took me from being so low to this life path that I’m really pleased and excited by… yes. To it’s such a contrast from making that transformation in myself as compared to now this… um, yes, difficulty that I have.

Bashar

You don’t have difficulty until you define that you do. There is no such thing as an inherently difficult situation.

Asker

Are you saying it would be possible for me to really be like completely okay and happy about this?

Bashar

I am saying it is absolutely possible, and not only possible but highly probable, that you can be absolutely happy and okay about this. Because being okay and happy means you’ll be experiencing the things that are reflective of your happiness. It’s not that you’re going to be happy about the way things are; it’s that you’re going to be happy about the way things will be when you let yourself get there. So you may not be in that state right now, but you can be in that state. And when you’re in that state, things will be experienced differently that will be representative and reflective of the fact that you’re happy.

Asker

Yes.

Bashar

Yeah. I find you don’t have to believe it right now. Just keep walking toward it. It’s like, uh, every day I wake up… well, that’s enough. That’s enough. Every day wake up. That’s enough. Just keep doing that. The things will come to you that you need to show you where your happiness lies. She’s working with you. Let her in. Don’t keep her at bay. Don’t push her away. Don’t be angry. Let her in.

Perspective, The Glass Wall, and UFOs

Asker

I was on an airplane, I saw things from a really cool perspective looking out the window, um, above the clouds. Yes. Um, I noticed that we look so small down here. Is this your first time on a plane?

Bashar

Uh, no. All right.

Asker

But first time looking out the window like that? Oh, all right. First time for that perspective. Yes. All right. So, um, sometimes you do in fact have to be high to have a different perspective.

Bashar

Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

Asker

So from down here, we, you know, everything looks so big. Everything is so linear. Yes. You should see it from our perspective. I know. I just… I just posted on Facebook, and I was like, hash… what they see. I was like, oh, this is cool. This is what… you know, this is what you see. So yeah. And then, you know, a lot of the subjects that you talk about, I’m like, oh, well, you know, from this perspective, it sort of makes sense. Everything’s happening all at the same time. Yes. That’s really cool, ‘cause it actually is. But from down here, it’s like, I have to walk five steps to get from here to the freaking wall. The freaking wall. Yes. I was going to say another word, but I… is that a German word? Does freakinol… does freen hi… um, so I’m thinking, okay, so from down here, let me tap into what Bashar says a lot. Okay. Oh, all right. Okay. So I’m walking from my chair in this room to this microphone talking to you. Yes. And that from that distance to here, I just walked through a large amount of Earths. Yes. Okay. So, um, how I feel right now is a really cool rush of excitement. Yes. Um, and I also know that this feeling right now is also the feeling I have when I start to doubt myself and I start to, um, get afraid of what might happen. The feeling right now is very similar. All right. So, okay. So on the seat just now, I was excited. So I’m on those Earths… Earths that are on those frequencies. Yes. I’m shifting into bodies that have those personalities of me that are on those Earths where things sort of unfold in an exciting way. Yes. Okay. So if I’m going to work, right, and I’m like, you know, I’m driving, I’m sort of amping myself up, and I’m getting a little anxiety because there’s so many personalities at work. So, so, right. So, so. And there’s a lot of vibrational things going, a lot of decisions happening, and I have one job, and I go and do it. Yes. And, um, is that an exciting job?

Bashar

Uh, yeah. Overall, it’s… it’s an exciting job. Uh, yeah. Overall.

Asker

Right. That’s sort of the thing is, um, you know, my part in it is eh, but there’s other parts in it that are really exciting. Can you make the parts that are eh more exciting?

Bashar

Uh, yes. Yes.

Asker

I have. I have. All right. Um, and the only way I’ve been able to do that, um, is to be present and not thinking about what’s going to happen or what has happened. All right. And do you prefer that state?

Bashar

It’s the only state that I can… um, match. That I can become that… that I at least feel safe. So why would you give yourself any reason to leave that state?

Asker

Um, I don’t. ‘Cause I have. And I’ve made a lot of, um, rough mistakes. Uh, doing that. That’s all right. You’ve learned something.

Bashar

Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Asker

So I’m thinking here. Um, yes. You know, the most important thing that I want to be in this state, and this state is very allowing of me being myself. Yes. That’s what it’s for. Right. So when I go to work, I usually… I… I used to have a lot of history of not being myself, and now I want to be myself. And are you in this state?

Bashar

I am. Yes. This be present. Again, why would you ever leave it?

Asker

Right before I… just… it… it doesn’t matter. I didn’t know why I did, but I did. All right. So, okay. Now I notice… I notice I was toying around with the idea with my coworkers, different personalities here. Yes. And, um, you know, I was waiting in line to visit my boss just outside her office with another coworker, and we’re both listening to my boss talk to somebody else. Yes. And I’m just assuming that my boss is being herself, but she’s… you know, she’s necessarily… right. Right. I don’t know. So, um, but she seemed very comfortable with using cursing words to get her point across, which is fine. And I made a comment to my colleague saying, um, “Isn’t it nice that we have a boss who can, uh, be herself? She can just explain things how she wants to.” All right. Right. And so it kind of sets the tone for us. Yes. Um, you know, we can be ourselves in a work environment. Isn’t that great? And my colleague looks at me and says, “We can.” And I immediately got reflection. I’m like, well, I want to be myself. And though I don’t want to necessarily use curse words to get my point across, I just… because is that you or is that not you to do so?

Bashar

It’s not me to do so. Then you wouldn’t do it.

Asker

Right. So I noticed I’m on this pattern. I’m… I’m… I’m in this really fun dance at work and being myself. And I don’t need to be inappropriate. I can just be myself and however I’m going to be. Yes. And I… not. And again, by definition, being yourself would actually always be appropriate for whatever is necessary in the moment. And that’s so good to know.

Bashar

Yes. It is. Because it’s all automatic and it all works.

Asker

Right. So the funny thing that I recognize… yes. And this is the sort of the closing of this statement. Yes. Is I see others look at me, and they have that face like, “Did he really just say that?” Yes. “Is this guy really expressing himself? Like, he’s… he’s just being himself.” And I feel so spaced out of his mind. Right. And I’m even… my… I’ll… my boss will even look at me like that, and my boss’s boss will even look at me like that. And you can see their Adam’s apple like, “Holy, he just said how he felt. He…” This is Robert. This is the guy that we hired. Yes. You know. Um, but there seems to be this sort of… um, this… uh, this vibe in the room that when you go to work, you have to be someone that might not be who you are.

Bashar

Yes. And that’s why it’s important for people to find out what it is they are and who it is they are and do what it is they are and not be places they are not. Right. Yes. Yes. Okay. Um, now, yeah. You have functioned to some degree as an example for the other people in that environment. And it doesn’t mean they have to choose to be who they truly are, but at least you’re giving them an option, right, by letting them see that they could choose that. Right. Even if they don’t. Even if they don’t. Even if it seems to me, it’s none of your business whether they do or not.

Asker

Correct. Yes. Yes. Yes. Okay. Um, so, so, yes. Sometimes I will fluctuate back to, um, doubt. I’ll… why I thought you said that you didn’t wish to go there anymore. It’s very momentary. Very momentary. All right. And you… what doubt is?

Bashar

Yes. Uh, not sure. Doubt is a 100% trust in something you don’t prefer.

Asker

Yes. Okay. Good. Good. You are never not trusting. It’s about what you’re trusting in. What you’re trusting in. Yes. Okay. That’s very good. So, um, and I noticed that when I… to doubt, I start in some sense just introducing static into the organizing principle of synchronicity. Of course. Okay. Cool. Great. Great. Great. So that’s great. So that’s really the statement that I wanted to make. All right. Thank you. And I’ll move on to the second. Yes. Okay. Great. So, so, uh, let’s see here. I heard you talk about something really exciting. Yes. And it’s called, um, the glass wall. Yes. That’s a really cool, uh, idea. It is. It’s an analogy for the idea that you are actually all starting to split into literal physical different parallel realities. And even though you can still see a parallel reality you don’t prefer, doesn’t mean you’re actually in that reality. It’s as if you are separated by a glass wall. Yes. More and more and more of this… this will continue to occur. So if… Okay. So let’s just… I’m just going to throw it out here. We’re in Vegas, and we had a very interesting event happened in Vegas not too long ago. And, um, in some sense, I was looking through the glass wall. Yes. In a literal sense, too. Yes. Watching my TV. Yes. And I would see these people, uh, explaining their experience. Yes. So I’m… I’m… I’m… I’m interested to know, um, you know, for…

Bashar

We will be giving you an energy permission slip in the meditation that deals with this issue. Okay. We are calling it The ABC Meditation. Okay.

Asker

Okay. So do you… you don’t want to talk about this anymore?

Bashar

It is not appropriate to do so now.

Asker

You have this really cool craft above Sedona.

Bashar

My craft doesn’t have a name as such. There is a Mothership, a cylindrical mother ship, that is a more ancient craft that was given a name. The name was The Solar Wind.

Asker

Is it still descending or where is it at currently?

Bashar

Well, it fluctuates. It’s somewhere between 800 and 900… 900 miles above Sedona. Okay.

Asker

I was on the airplane the other day, and I was like, okay, I’m 44,000 ft in the… AA. You know, you’re still way down there. Like, if I can just look up, maybe it’ll see. But, um, no.

Bashar

Even if we were much closer, you still wouldn’t see us. Not yet. It’s not only about the idea of how close we are to Earth that acts as a barometer for how close you are to open contact, but also how keen your senses are to actually being able to perceive the vibration. That’s the… of our ship.

Asker

That’s interesting. So it’s not just this, but it’s also, can you see us? Right. I mean, that will happen in time. That’s really cool. Okay. Thank you. Well, that’s it. Thank you. AO. AO means thank you. Yes. AO, not OO. AO in our ancient language. Yes. And in the spirit of gratitude, I wanted to take a moment, a collective moment, to essentially celebrate in an inspirational way the outstanding efforts from Victor and Aaron for being outstanding ambassadors for sharing this message. So if we all could come on, let’s feel, let’s give Bashar our energy. Come on. 10x. Let’s go. Come on. Let’s get it. Why? Thank you. All right. So in the spirit of this, I was essentially demonstrating how much we essentially enjoy your presence, as we enjoy all of yours. And in the spirit of that writing, that momentum wave, how many of us here would like to experience open contact? Come on. Let’s hear if you want open contact. Let… let… let Bashar hear it. Come on. [Applause] Thought I heard a little buzzing. All right. 10x everybody.