This will have to do with things that existed in the history of our world and also things that existed in the history of your own, and also where it can lead.
Our world, in our ancient language Esani, having recently shifted in our reality to a higher vibrational term, Shak.
But we will, because of the place and time that our relationship exists with you, for now continue to refer to it by the old vernacular Eathan.
We have a world that is similar to your own. It is very green, not so many seasonal changes as you understand them on your planet. Mostly a relative temperature of consistency in what you would call the mild to tropical types of environments.
As we have said, we have no real built-up city structures on our planet. More often than not, our spacecraft are our cities. While we may have a structure for a variety of reasons from time to time, most of the planet has been left in a natural state.
However, what we have not discussed before and will discuss this day of your time is that we have a few ancient structures on our planet as well.
In your terms of time, the history of my people has lasted about 10,000 of your years, give or take. The idea is that in ancient times, as we were learning, as we were evolving, as we were developing our understanding of our relation to ourselves and to Creation, and similar to the way that people on your planet in ancient times did these things, a lot of ancient Esani people built certain kinds of structures on the planet for a variety of reasons, many of which were made of stone.
The Shadok: A Spiral Stone Structure
Our planet has something similar to your Stonehenge, but it is not circular. It is a spiral that stretches out over several acres of land and is in our ancient language called Shadok
These standing stones were created by ancient people on my planet do not have the connecting lintels on the top that Stonehenge originally had and to some degree still has today.
They are simply a series of standing rectangular stones with a certain space in between them that would be about the size of a wide doorway, again somewhat similar to the spacing of the stones in your Stonehenge but a little bit different.
However, not all of them are empty, these spaces.
Some of them are, but many of them are not. In these spaces there is hanging between the stones other slices of different kinds of stone, sliced relatively thin and hanging in a sense like a chime, a large chime between the major standing stones.
Each of these thinner slices of stone, of different types, different colors, different kinds, has been specifically fashioned to give off a particular tone when struck.
Just as you know that if you have a relatively thin piece of stone that is translucent and you strike it, it will give off a kind of bell-like ring. Depending upon the stone, it will determine what tone it gives off.
Each of the stones in this spiral structure has been specifically engineered with specific types of stone hanging in between the standing stones that give off certain tones, and there are hundreds of them.
When individuals stand before these hanging stones in between the major stones and they strike them in a certain succession or all at once, they are designed to give off specific chords, specific tones, specific harmonies—like a series of bells struck all at once or in succession, depending upon the purpose.
But these vibrational tones are specifically aligned and matched to the stones themselves in certain ways to allow us to be immersed in that vibration.
In so being immersed in those frequencies, to be put in the proper state of being to be able to begin to commune with those stone structures, to understand empathically, to begin to relate telepathically with the idea of Consciousness expressing itself as Stone.
Because all is consciousness. All has its own form of awareness.
It may not be very similar to the form of awareness that you express or we express as the kind of beings that we happen to be, but nevertheless they have awareness of a very different type.
When you allow yourself the opportunity to pull forth from those stone structures in a specific way those tonalities, those frequencies, and allow yourself to be immersed within them, it can be very transportive.
It can put you into a kind of hypnotic state. And in that state, you can begin to receive what you might call downloads of information from the stone Consciousness, the stone beings, the stone people if you wish to call them that.
And in so being connected to those stone vibrations, those frequencies, it sets up a series of harmonics in your Consciousness that allows you to begin to access different levels of the idea that are represented of the frequencies and Consciousness that is represented by the stones.
This was also an ancient art on your planet long ago, as you say in Lemurian and Atlantean times.
The art and the techniques were kind of lost over time, you are beginning to rediscover them again. And hence the great affinity that you’re beginning to feel and attraction you’re beginning to feel toward the idea of crystals, which are purified forms of stone for very specific tonalities.
But also, by being immersed in this vibrational energy, in these chords, in these harmonies—especially in that Shadok was designed specifically for this purpose by the Stone Speaker people on our planet, those that found themselves having this attraction and affinity to the stone Consciousness and who themselves allowed that energy to course through them and who could speak for the stones and to the stones and with the stones—they allow themselves to create, to fashion this Shadok in such a manner as to not only set up a vibrational frequency, a bubble reality that would allow them to communicate with the specific stones in the Shadok, but also with all forms of stone.
All rocks, mountains on our world, the planet itself is made mostly of these kinds of minerals.
We are genetically related to you. Our bodies like yours are also those forms that contain many forms of mineral:
- the iron in your blood
- the copper in your cells
- zinc
All of these exist also within the stone Consciousness.
So you contain those vibratory elements that can connect you strongly to stone Consciousness and allow you, when immersed in these vibrations, these specific vibrations, to also learn to participate, to partake of communion and communication with that form, that expression of Consciousness—again not only just with individual stones or individual crystals, but all of them.
Not only those that may be freely standing above the surface of the Earth, but also within the matrix of your soil, of your mantle, of the idea of the planet itself. And by connecting to one world through the stone Consciousness, you can also begin to connect to other worlds as well and allow yourself to experience the matrix of the relationship of energy exchange and consciousness exchange that goes on, that exists as a network, as a web between all such solid planets and any solid or stony material that may be within the idea of your universe.
When you achieve that certain resonant frequency, that certain resonant pattern within yourself and begin to be immersed within it, you may feel yourselves slowing down a bit. Since obviously stones don’t move too fast. But that’s all right. It doesn’t mean that your energy or your vibrational frequency is diminishing in a negative way, but you may go into a kind of semi-meditative, trance-like state as you begin to identify more and more with those mineral frequencies that make up the matrices of the stones of your world.
Permission Slip: Doorways To Other Dimensions
Such devices as Shadok and Stonehenge also serve another purpose in connection with what we have said in conjunction with what we have said, but created and experienced slightly differently.
Because the spaces between the stones, between the standing stones, are very much like doorways, and they act very much like doorways to different dimensions, different realities, different levels of experience.
You can learn again to use them this way, even as they were used to gain knowledge, to download information from other dimensions, other realities in Creation. The Shadok still does this. Stonehenge, or some similar structure, if you choose to recreate it on any scale, can do this as well if you allow it to be whole once again in the design that was originally intended so that it is complete.
You begin to allow yourself to use the permission slip of finding the stones you are most attracted to, fashioning them in thin slices that are translucent and thin enough to ring like a bell when you strike them. You can begin to entrain yourself and rewire yourself to the specific frequencies of the different languages of the different stone cultures on your planet.
For each different elemental matrix in a sense is a different culture and a different language in stone. So you can begin to train yourself to listen to those tones, to let those tones rub off on you, and begin to identify more strongly when you’re out in nature with the stones all around you, the stones beneath your feet, and the stone matrices deep down in the crust, the mantle, the core of your planet, and from there, other worlds as well.
Especially if you do this within such a device, within such a permission slip as a complete Stonehenge or a Shadok, then those spaces that are left open between the standing stones will begin to vibrate, will begin to resonate. They will become like resonating cavities as these tones are struck in sequence or simultaneously, depending upon what you wish to do.
As those spaces become resonating cavities, they will each be representative of a different connection, a different vortex connection to another dimension, another reality that that frequency is representative of. And by standing in that doorway space and in that resonance, as the other stones are struck, it can in a sense transport your Consciousness or open your Consciousness or unlock your Consciousness in such a manner as to receive very strong impressions, visions, and experiences, and information and energy from those other dimensions that that resonant frequency is representative of.
The Stone Speakers Of Essassani
The stone speakers in our ancient language are also called Shadok Karini.
In that you also have stone speakers on your planet, those who are very attracted to communicate with the idea of stone and crystal. You are your own form of Shadok Karini.
By allowing yourself the opportunity to form these relationships with these stone beings and really refine your ability to understand stone speak in all the different cultures that stones exist within, you’ll begin to develop a repertoire, you’ll begin to develop a lexicon in such a manner that any aspect of nature will begin to open up to you.
Because all aspects of nature—the plants, the animals, yourselves in the ocean, on the land, and in the air—all contain the minerals that are in the stones. All are supported by the foundation of the stones. All are connected through the stones.
As you begin to gain familiarity with that vibration, the vibration of your world, your Earth—what you call the Gaia Consciousness, the collective vibration of all the stone beings on your planet—you will begin to identify with the minerals in plants, the minerals in animals, the minerals in your cells, the minerals in the air.
And you’ll begin to notice that more and more information will be coming in. You’ll be absorbing as you walk in nature, as you play in nature. You’ll start absorbing little bits here and there. Walking through the forest, suddenly you might go, “Who said that? What did you say?”
You’ll begin to realize over time that you will begin to speak the language of the trees, the language of the animals, the language of the water, the language of the sky, starting with the foundational stone beings. They will begin to lay the foundation for all the other languages that derive from it, that grow from the Earth, that are spawned from the Earth. For you all contain the minerals that the stones themselves are representative of, and so you’re all connected in that way.
The Unity Frequency and Crystals As Purified Stone
In our ancient times, along with the Shadok and the practice thereof of the stone speakers, this extended and expanded as we said into the understanding of the world as a whole. And so it was the stone speakers themselves who began to initiate the particular, specific frequency in our world to set it up as a harmonic—a rebounding harmonic that amplified and magnified more and more and more over time that began to create the unity among us all.
And it is the first vibrational aspect to the overall vibrational equation that allowed us to ultimately experience the telepathic link with each other and with all forms of life on our planet.
So as you begin to form a relationship with the stone beings and learn stone speak, allow yourselves to know you will be laying the foundation, creating the environment and the vibration that will help make it more conducive for others to also slip into that vibration. Anytime they are in nature, anytime they choose to have any kind of an idea of a relationship with a mountain, a rock, a field, a tree, an animal, sky, water, any mineral whatsoever—you will make it that much easier for that vibration to amplify and magnify in those other people as well.
Crystals are kind of a refined version since they are mostly of a particular type of element or combination of elements without necessarily being a jumble of them.
There are fewer elements in those crystals, and so in a sense the crystals can function as very accelerated repositories of information, storage matrices in a sense that can hold on to information in a kind of orderly, organized matrix. The information of which then can be extracted from them as a storage unit, in a sense, by those who choose to align with that particular matrix.
It doesn’t have to be very large—if you can allow yourself to fashion out of a natural crystal, a natural crystal with as few occlusions as possible, as pure a version as possible of whatever that crystal is—quartz, ruby, it doesn’t matter.
Whatever you are attracted to—but if you can fashion a small slice that is thin enough to be rung to produce a tone, the purity of that tone will help align the electrical centers of your brain, the electrical centers of your body, the cellular structures of your body very rapidly.
So creating those little permission slips in the purest form you can and striking them like a musical instrument and receiving that tone and being immersed in that tone can be very accelerative and help you learn to identify that much more quickly, resonate that much more rapidly with the stone beings in general.
The crystals in that sense are the keys to the rest of the stone reality. They are the representatives in a sense in pure form of the whole reality, the whole world of the stone Consciousness. So they are the ambassadors. That’s what the crystals are—the pure keys, the pure gateways, the purer tones that will invite you into the world of the stones.
Water Immersion Acceleration
One way to even accelerate that process as a permission slip is to actually be immersed in water when you strike that little stone bell.
The vibration in water—because you are also mostly made of water and the water is what suspends the minerals within you—will set up a vibrational resonance within your body that will be very, very powerful, very profound indeed. In fact, it may actually make you a little bit dizzy.
So if you can take, for example, a pure little quartz crystal that has been cut into a very flat little shape, flat enough, thin enough so that when you strike it it will ring, and you can suspend it in something so that you do not dampen the vibrations when you strike it, and you put this underwater and you’re immersed in the water at least to some degree—doesn’t have to be all the way over your head, but at least up to this level, at least up to the heart, above the heart—and you strike it underwater, that vibration is going to go into your body and it’s going to cause a resonant pattern to set up in the water in your body, in the mineral in your body in such a way as to open up gateways, doorways and rewire you and to light a fire within you that is pure and in such a manner to accelerate your ability to harmonize with and resonate with the stone Consciousness on your planet.
Questions
Fear
Asker: I experience a lot of fear Of opening up. I fear something would get me.
Bashar: Get you? You mean like a boogeyman?
Asker: I’ve had some experiences that have been expansive and some that have been frightening.
Bashar: All experiences can be used to expand you. If some of them frighten you, then it gives you an opportunity to examine what definitions you may be holding on to that would allow you to experience it in a frightening way as opposed to an expansive way. Because regardless of anyone else’s intention in the same situation, you always have the opportunity—all of you always have the opportunity—to determine what effect the situation will have on you by giving it the positive definition that you are capable of giving it.
So what are you afraid of?
Asker: Losing control. There’s been times when I have opened up and I’m not quite sure, I’ve come back sometimes screaming.
Bashar: You mean like when you’re on a roller coaster really screaming?
Asker: Yes, and I’ve been very, very… far out of my body and I’m not quite sure all right what’s happened.
Bashar: Well many of you do have other experiences with other entities, other beings, or experiences in other dimensions and so on and so forth. And when you wake up you remember it as a dream, but many times it is simply the best that your physical mind can do to choose symbols to represent what happened. Because many of the symbols don’t exist in your physical reality to literally represent what happens, so your physical mind has to do the best it can.
However, the idea of the fear is not experienced until you reconnect to the physical focus because then you’re coming back through the matrix of your personality structure, which may contain negative definitions, fear-based definitions. And thus the experience, while not fearful when you had it, may be transformed into a fearful experience and allow you to wake up screaming because the symbols that the physical mind has to represent the actual experience will be taken from the strongest belief systems within the physical mind.
Therefore, if you have many different issues that are negative definitions still stored in your unconscious physical mind, then the physical mind only has those to represent what happened. You understand? This is why it’s so important to clarify your definitions and make yourself more transparent and more in alignment with who you prefer to be and let go of those negative definitions of your relationship to situations in life. Because when you make yourself more transparent, then the experiences you’re having on another level, when you reconnect, will not draw from those negative definitions to form a symbolic representation in physical terms of what that experience was about.
Bashar: You understand that your reality is the product of what you believe most strongly to be true?
Asker: Yes.
Bashar: And if you have negative definitions and you’re assigning those negative definitions to situations, you’re labeling them in a negative way even unconsciously, the only way you can experience a situation is negatively. Yes. And you understand therefore conversely that if you assign positive definitions to the very same situation, you will get a positive effect out of that same situation that you previously got a negative one from. You understand that? It’s solely determined by the definition you give.
So if you’re having an experience that you’re calling negative, then the idea is to use that as an opportunity, use the fear as an opportunity to ask the question: What would I have to believe is true about myself in relation to this circumstance that would allow me to experience the generation of a negative feeling? Because feelings can only generate from something you believe to be true. You can’t have a feeling—feelings don’t exist in a vacuum. You cannot have a feeling if you don’t already have a definition.
So if you have a feeling, then you have to know that that feeling can only exist because it’s being generated by a definition you may be unaware of. So use the feeling to backtrack and find out what the definition would have to be in order to generate that kind of a reaction. Make sense? And once you identify consciously identify that definition that’s out of alignment with your true self, with who you prefer to be, you will immediately perceive that definition as illogical and nonsensical. And as soon as you perceive it as nonsensical, you’ll drop it. You understand? That’s why it’s so important to find it, to identify it consciously.
But you can use the feelings of fear that you’re having as a messenger, as a friend knocking on your door telling you: Hey, you have a belief that’s out of alignment with your true self. And by the fact that it’s out of alignment, that’s why you’re experiencing your energy as fear instead of joy. Because it’s the same energy—joy and fear use the same energy—but you experience it as fear when it filters through a belief that’s out of alignment with your true self, and you experience the very same energy as joy when it’s in alignment with your true self, going through an aligned belief.
So this is your opportunity to use this sleep training. If you wake up in fear, take a moment, relax, breathe, take a moment to remember that no matter what happens, you are an eternal, infinite, indestructible being.
Bashar: So even though things may change physically, you—the unique perspective that is you—will always exist because it always has.
So that can help maybe diminish a little bit of the fear—that nothing really can ever happen to you to the degree where you truly become annihilated. You follow me? Because what’s kicking in in some of your fear is simply the idea of your survival instinct as a physical being, because the experience you’re having is taking place in another reality where the physical ego cannot go.
So when you reconnect to the physical focus, the physical ego is going: Hey, where the hell did you go? You left me hanging here.
And if you do that again, well I’m afraid I might just disappear. So you need to form first and foremost a positive relationship with the ego structure whose job it is is just to help you focus in a physical reality experience and say: Listen, no matter what happens, no matter what kind of an experience I may have as more of my total self, you little ego will always be precious to me, will always be included in some way, shape or form. You will never be obsolete. You will never ever be annihilated. But you may allow yourself to find a different form of expression, a different way to relate to who and what you are and have different experiences. But you are part of the family. You will never go away completely because there will always be the perspective of you as your own identity. It may not be the same as the physical ego, but nevertheless it is the same as having a unique identity.
That will never go away. So help your ego structure relax by letting it know it will not die, it will not end, you will not forsake it, you will not abandon it. It doesn’t have to worry about its survival. It doesn’t have to kick you into survival mode. You’re never really out of control because the only reason that you feel you are or the ego feels that it is is that you’re going beyond the parameters it is used to for physical reality. And going beyond the parameters of physical reality to the physical mind sounds like death. Do you understand?
So you kick into survival mode. But if you let the ego know that nothing is really dying, that you’re just expanding, you’re having different experiences and you will share them with the ego—there will always be a way for the ego to experience what it needs to experience of those particular experiences in physical terms and it will get to participate in the excitement and what you’re learning and how you’re expanding and how you’re growing and how everything is working so smoothly together—then it’ll become excited about participating in that and it won’t feel so abandoned and complain and moan and gripe when you reconnect.
Arcturus And Sacred Geometry
Asker: I have been working for many years with frequencies that assist me during my dream space and it’s exciting and I love it. Can you give me some insight into I’m very attracted to Arcturian sacred geometry and things of this nature?
Bashar: Well what is your own synchronicity brought to you about that idea? Because whatever you are attracted to and whatever gets attracted to you is representative of the permission slip that will work best for you at that particular moment during the attraction. So what has it brought to you?
The Arcturus energy represents a gateway that orients and aligns your vibrational frequency to help you remember more of who you are when you enter physical reality.
So many of you have processed yourselves in this incarnation through what might be loosely called the Arcturian gate so that you can hold on to the vibration of your greater self and allow yourself to use it as a beacon to find your way back and remember more of who you are.
But in what specific way would you like to use the Arcturus vibration as a specific permission slip for you? That’s really the question. Whatever you are most attracted to is what will work best for you at the moment you’re attracted to it. If you change your mind about what attracts you, then whatever it is that you are attracted to next is what will work best for you at the moment you’re attracted to it. That’s how permission slips work. Does that make sense?
Asker: I think so. I’m getting up to speed with you, Bashar.
Bashar: Well you don’t have to get up to speed with me. You only have to get up to speed with yourself.
Allow yourself to have fun even if you have fear. Allow the fear to be fun because fear is your friend knocking on your door letting you know there is some belief within you that’s out of alignment with who you prefer to be. So have fun with fear. Say thank you fear, thank you for bringing that to my attention.
When you use fear that way, it won’t stick around because it’ll have done its job and it’ll move on. It’ll change into something else. It’ll change into excitement, it’ll change into curiosity. It’s only when you don’t use the fear, it’s only when you resist the fear that it has to do something bigger to get your attention. So fear becomes terror. You understand? But you don’t need to let it grow into terror by paying attention to what it has to say to you while it’s still just a little bit of nervousness.
The Grays And Underground Aliens
Asker: I only recently heard about great aliens living underneath the crust of our Earth.
Bashar: Well, not as many as you might think, not as often as you might think. Some of the stories are exaggerated, some of them have kernels of truth.
Asker: I was wondering what you could tell us about them. Are they harmful, sinister? Are they part of an interstellar alliance?
Bashar: There are many different types of Grays. You can’t actually just lump them all into one particular type. Though we know many of you do, and that can be what causes a lot of confusion in you when you see different kinds of behaviors.
But the ones that are most relevant—you have to understand that the story of the Grays is really that they began on a parallel Earth as humans and they destroyed their world and they mutated into the form you call the Grays.
They did it in such a way that they could no longer reproduce. So in order to perpetuate their civilization, they had to tunnel into parallel realities where humans still existed with viable human DNA and use that DNA in order to create hybrid beings such as ourselves which would allow their culture to continue.
So in a sense, a Gray is actually just a form of mutated human.
Bashar: And by using their example as a lesson, your world doesn’t necessarily have to go down the same destructive path.
Asker: Is our planet beyond saving? Because I’ve heard some different opinions and theories on this.
Bashar: If you believe your planet is beyond saving, then it is. If you believe your planet needs saving, then it does. If you understand it doesn’t need saving, then it doesn’t. If you understand that you are the one shifting your energy and shifting to another version of Earth—every change you experience, you are actually on another version of Earth. You never change the earth you’re on.
So there are always versions of Earth that will destroy themselves and have destroyed themselves and can never be saved. There are an infinite number of versions of Earth that don’t need saving—they’re perfectly fine. You are shifting through the spectrum of these parallel versions of Earth billions of times per second. And the idea is that the changes you make within you shift you to another version of Earth that is more reflective and more representative of the change in vibration you’ve made within yourself.
You can never change the world you’re on. You can only shift to another Earth that is more like the vibration you have changed within yourself.
Elongated Skulls
Asker: Elongated skulls are found throughout the Earth that are. Are those part of decomposed bodies of the Grays, or are there other species living among us, or is that something else?
Bashar: It actually belongs to an ET. The rest are human hybrids who have altered their look to match the look of that ET.
The Pyramids And Levitation
Asker: The pyramids—how did they move the stones?
Bashar: The earliest ones were moved through levitation.
This is why we talk about the idea of the stone speakers, because when you understand the vibrations, the true vibrations of the stone, and you speak to them that way—whether with your own voices in harmony or through technological devices that can replicate those harmonies in a certain way—you can actually cancel the effect of gravity on the stone.
Lucid Dreaming Permission Slip
Asker: You spoke at great length about cutting crystals into the small slivers. For a while I’ve been trying to come up with a plan to hang something above my bed to increase my dream communications because I have very, very vivid dreams.
Bashar: Does that mean you succeeded? Well I haven’t actually put anything up there. I want maybe you don’t need it. You’re saying you have very vivid dreams already.
Asker: I do.
Bashar: Would you like them to be? I just don’t understand.
Asker: Well then what you’re seeking is lucidity.
Bashar: Yes, thank you. There again are many different permission slips that you can use to expand and increase lucidity. We’re going to talk about one in the upcoming transmission called The Awakening. But you know what, we’ll give you a hint now. We’ll give you a sneak preview.
This is again just a permission slip. You understand what permission slips are?
Asker: Yes.
Bashar: Do all of you understand what permission slips are? Anyone does not? All right, no there is no one who does not or no you don’t understand? Oh thank you.
A permission slip is any tool, any technique, any ritual, any object that allows you to align with your belief system in such a way to let you give yourself permission to be more of who you are. That’s all. Nothing does anything for you. You’re doing it yourself. But for some reason your belief system is aligned in a way that says that if I do this thing or have this thing or use this thing or say these words, it’s going to be easier for me to experience what I prefer to experience. So that thing is aligned with your belief system. Any tool, any technique, any ritual, any object at all is aligned with your belief system in such a way that it allows you to give yourself more permission to be more of who you are. That’s what a permission slip is. In a sense, that’s what physical reality is—one big fat permission slip.
But the idea here is that sometimes specific permission slips take advantage of certain collective psychological states of being within you that work for a great amount of the mass consensus because you have a mass consensus agreement as well as individual agreements with the mass consensus.
So one very strong permission slip that can work for many of you in helping you to create lucidity in your dreams—which means waking up in the dream and knowing that you were dreaming and then suddenly realizing that you’re creating the dream, you’re in control of it, and then further allowing yourself to recognize that physical reality is also a dream and that you can become lucid in the physical reality dream—will allow you to experience very magical things and changes in your physical reality.
This is what our civilization did. We woke up in the dream state and then realized that physical reality was also another form of dream state and woke up in that and we stayed in the lucid dream. That’s why we don’t sleep anymore. We’re always awake and we’re always dreaming simultaneously.
Now this little permission slip that we’re going to share with you this day is the idea that when you’re dreaming, obviously you know that many different kinds of things can happen that if they had actually happened in physical reality would make you stop and take notice. But in the dream state you kind of accept almost anything that happens as natural or normal.
Bashar: So what you need to do is you need to create a device—something that will absolutely stand out in the dream in such a way as to remind you that you actually are dreaming if you see it in the dream.
So what you need to do is use your artistic abilities to create some shape, some image—can be a drawing, it can be a sculpture, can be whatever you wish it to be. But the first part of it—it’s a two-part idea. The first part of it is that it is something that you really need to identify uniquely with, strongly, with uniquely—that is really unique to you, very specifically to some attribute that you know is really unique to you. And work that into this drawing, this image, this object, whatever it is. So that when you recognize it, you will know it has your unique mark that no one else would have made.
Now the second part of it is: once that’s done, you need to attach to it—whether again in drawing form or physical form doesn’t matter—you need to attach to it something, just one thing, one symbolic thing that is representative of something you absolutely do not prefer. You follow me? Absolutely would never prefer. Because what this does is it works together in a very specific way. Because again, if you just use the side that’s unique to you that really represents you, you might still accept it just as something familiar in the dream and just integrate it right into your dream. But if it contains that one little thing that is something you do not prefer, then you’ll get that instant snap, that rebound, that polarity shift where you go: Ah, me no. Not me. Me not. Me not. Oh! It woke you up in the dream.
So it’s kind of a combination of a way to use polarity to snap yourself awake in the dream and become lucid. So just use your imagination and your creativity on this and see what happens.
Conceiving A Child
Asker: My wife and I have started to try to have a child.
Bashar: Try? Well maybe that’s why you’re not having one, ‘cause you’re trying to have one. Why don’t you just have one instead?
Children are the product of agreements you make with spirits who become your children? Yes. Do you understand that these things happen in perfect timing when they really need to? Yes. Do you understand that if you just relax and stop trying, it’s more likely you’ll have one?
The timing has already been agreed to. The appointments have already been made. The only way you can miss an appointment is by spending your energy and time worrying you will miss the appointment. That’s the paradox. If you stop worrying, you will miss the appointment—you won’t miss the appointment. The child will be born or children will be born at the appointed timing that is representative of the agreements you made to be family in physical reality.
So don’t focus on it so strongly. Don’t try so hard. Relax. Relax. Relax. If there is something you need to know about things you need to do that are physiological, the synchronicity in your life will let you know what those things are. If there are things you need to do energetically, the synchronicity in your life will present to you opportunities to handle the energetic balance. But you have to trust the way your life is unfolding. Do you understand?
Asker: Yes. And I am on that journey. We are on that journey of trust.
Bashar: What’s a journey of trust? Well, you either trust in something or you trust in something else. You have to learn how to trust the unfolding. The unfolding. All right. The experience of unfolding. But let’s go back to the trust issue. Because the idea is you don’t have to learn to trust. You only have to learn to trust in what you prefer as opposed to trusting in what you don’t prefer. So it’s not about learning to trust, it’s about learning where to put your trust.
So when you say a journey of trust, that’s all you’re actually learning is how to let it be okay to trust what you prefer as opposed to creating reasons to continue to trust what you don’t prefer. That’s the journey you’re talking about. It’s not a journey of learning to trust.
There’s no such thing as a lack of trust. There is only a trust in lack.
Asker: I believe this has been what we’ve been doing and we’ve come to this point.
Bashar: Yes, but you haven’t been doing it because you’re asking the question and stating it in a manner that says you’re trying to have a child.
Asker: Well in earnest we’ve just got…
Bashar: Is that a particular town or something on your planet? You keep saying in earnest.
Asker: The combination of things have finally come together.
Bashar: Yes, that’s what I’m trying to say. No. All right. Why didn’t say now? I take what you say about just back and the timing and the appointment, this will take place, and I appreciate that.
Remember that on your unfolding, you’re also in the process of becoming the parent to whom the child made the agreement to be born.
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