How To Know To Help People or Not

Well, it’s very simple. You go up to a person and say, “May I help you?” If they say yes, help them. If they say no, go away.

You help people by simply being an example. It’s not about them needing to change. It’s not about you needing to help them. It’s about being willing to. And if they open up an opportunity acting on it, but when they say that’s enough, no more or no thank you. Being all right with the fact that they are free to make a choice that may be different than yours is actually how you help them best. Because if you don’t allow them the unconditional opportunity to choose a vibration that they want to choose, no matter what it is, then you are not being unconditional in vibration. And if you are not being unconditional in vibration, then an unconditional vibration is not available to you either. Mhm. So you can’t then choose what you prefer.

Compassion is unconditional allowance. It is the recognition, from a state—if you wish—of attached detachment, that everyone is free to make their choices, and you support them wholly in the doing of that thing.

Because only by supporting their ability to make whatever choices they want unconditionally do you actually give them the best ability to choose something that might actually be to their benefit. That’s compassion.

Also, when it means that you need to say—I feel sometimes the need to say to people that they should do something else, and not “should”—good. You can always offer an alternative without any need they must listen. That’s compassion. Yes, that’s helping. That’s helping.

Be there by example, as we said. They can see in you that there might be another way. You can talk to them about the possibility that there might be another way.

In much the same way we are talking to all of you, telling you that there are other ways in which you could be doing things, we have absolutely no need whatsoever that any of you should ever pay attention to us.

If you wish to choose something other than what we’re telling you, go right ahead.

We love you unconditionally enough to let you do that. Otherwise, if we don’t let you do what you choose, we’re not unconditionally loving, because we’re not loving you. You see? I see.

We love you as you are. We love you based on the choices you decide are important for you to make.

We are happy to help in sharing other ways of looking at things that give us joy, that we know could give you joy. But if you do not want to do that, we still love you.

Because we know—we know from our perspective that ultimately in that sense it doesn’t really matter that much, because nothing is going to change the fact that you are an eternal spirit, indestructible eternal spirit. Eternal spirit.

One way or another, you’ll explore just about everything. So, we’re in no rush. We know that you will discover different things at different times.

However, we also recognize that if there is a conversation going on between us, there’s probably a reason why there’s a conversation going on between us right now.

And usually—not always, but usually—the reason the conversation between us goes on is because you’re probably ready to hear some new ideas and incorporate them. And most of you do, or at least you wish to.

So the idea is that we recognize that we are being of help in perfect timing to what most of you wish to know or hear.

But at no time are you expected to incorporate that information within you if you don’t prefer to.

Patience. Why do you need patience? You don’t need patience. None of you need patience.

Why do you think humans think they need patience? I’ll tell you why. The only reason humans become impatient is because they think they need to be patient. You don’t need to be patient.

Let me ask you a question. May I? Thank you. I will. If you’re doing something you absolutely love to do all the time, what do you need patience for? You don’t need patience if you’re not waiting to do something you love to do.

The only reason you are impatient is because you’re not doing what you love to do. And so you are patiently waiting to do it. And the patience wears thin.

So if you stop waiting to do it and you simply do it, you won’t need patience. You’ll be so busy having fun, you won’t need patience. And you’ll be so busy not caring exactly how it comes out, in what form, right or wrong, accurate or not accurate at first, that you will simply keep doing it.

And as you keep doing it, you’ll get more practice and you’ll get better and you’ll fine-tune it and you’ll have better discernment. And it just comes with the territory. Like that. Thank you for your synchronicity.

But the point is is that when you finally get used to the idea of our shirt, as you say, you will suddenly realize it’s your shirt, too. Right. Aha. Okay.

Okay. So, just to be very specific when Oh. All right. When a piece of food is facing me that I would love to eat. Yes. And the the marquee says when a piece of food is facing you that you feel anxiety about. Thank you. Yes.

You see, here’s where you really need to be discerning about what you’re actually saying about that. Because you can gloss it over by saying, “Oh, yes. I would love to eat it.” And make it sound like it’s part of your excitement. when in fact what you’re actually saying is I feel so anxious and so empty I have to put this in my body in order to feel better temporarily.

You need more honesty and discernment about what you’re actually saying in those circumstances. Now yes we understand that sometimes in your society there may be things that people label as good and bad and for some people they may not necessarily be bad.

We understand that there can be differences of opinion on this and differences of effect in people’s lives. Whereas some people can do certain things and they seem to be fine and other people can do the littlest thing and fall to pieces. So you have to have the discernment about what really works for you.

But the point is is you also have to have the discernment about what you’re actually saying in relationship to that food. And is it really I would love to put it in my body or is it I’m just so anxious and so empty I can’t think of anything else to do but plug the hole with this piece of food.

You have to be able to tell the difference before you can really start understanding why you’re doing what you’re doing. You have to hear yourself deeply hear why you are saying what you’re saying.

If you’re afraid to hear it, then deal with the fact that you’re afraid to hear it and find out what that belief is.

Really, from our perspective, most of you, we understand why you chose to explore the themes that you’ve chosen. And that’s all well and good and we would never take them away from you and we would never remove your processes from you.

At the same time, these conversations, the reason that you are actually attracted to coming and having these dialogues with us is that you know you know that you are all this close to really just getting it and letting it all go. when it doesn’t serve you.

So, we are happy to punt you over the edge. All right. Thank you.

Don’t be so hard on yourself. You’re not as far away as you think. It’s just that the belief system you have makes it seem as if you are farther away from that than you think. But you’re not. You’re not.

Yes. But the physical doesn’t distract you.

You distract yourself by focusing on the physical. So any fast tool to get me to turn my attention in that moment, there’s the paradox because the more you are willing to actually dive full full force, full speed ahead into the thing you really love to do, believe me, food will be one of the last things you will think about.

And the physical things in my body will also physical things will bring themselves back into balance. Because when pay attention, pay attention, pay attention. When you are doing what you love to do, when you are living your passion, you are on a frequency level that makes it possible for you to know what really needs to be done to sustain you and what does not.

The only reason you’re confused about what really needs to be done is because you’re not actually on the level where you can perceive the information about what you actually need and don’t need. Wow.

So when you are in your highest vibrational excitement, the highest vibrational excitement is always a complete kit. It’s the organizing principle. It’s the driving engine of your life. It will give you the ability to perceive exactly what is needed and what is not part of your frequency. But you will not know that until you’re actually in that frequency.

So in that place, yes, that’s when the synchronicities happen. That synchronicities happen all the time. synchronicities happen all the time. Remember, there are negative and positive synchronicities. But I’m saying more the the the ones that are more in the flow of that higher vibration can come in the door. It cannot happen in a lower vibration. But what does happen in the lower vibration are synchronicities that are indicative of that vibration. Right?

So if you are having this as you say struggle with the idea of whether or not to put food in your mouth, the synchronicities you are creating is a constant barrage of food you have to decide whether or not to put in your mouth. Yes, that’s correct. You will always find yourself in front of that situation because that’s the synchronicity you’re creating with your particular frequency.

Now, if you wish to create another one, the universe will not contradict you. It will support you in the creation of any frequency synchronicity just as it obviously has supported you in the creation of the synchronicity frequency level you’re already on. Yes.

Remember, the universe supports you no matter what. Right? It’s unconditionally supportive. So, if it supports you on the negative side, what reason would there be for it not to support you on the positive side? Oh, oh, oh. You don’t deserve it. You’re not worth it. I guarantee you, if you weren’t worth it, you wouldn’t exist. Good. Because creation doesn’t make mistakes. Very good. So, if you exist, you belong and you deserve whatever it is you imagine that you deserve.

Otherwise, you wouldn’t exist.

It can be whatever temperature you want, but that would be the strongest suggestion for you right now from us is actually take the time to go and explore a culture that does not have that expression of shame regarding sexuality or whatever else you decide to attach the concept of shame to.

And you may find that when you do this, you will suddenly become aware of why you may have chosen to explore this theme in this life. And it may actually lead to a very strong position of teaching for you. And I don’t just mean something you will learn, something that you can actually teach others.

No. The idea is to fully understand that there are two ways to look at this. You can say, as most humans in history have done, that it’s the same cube with one small change. Or you can also choose to understand that a sixsided blue cube is not literally not at all the same cube, the same cube as a cube with five blue sides and one red one.

And if you fully understand that it’s totally different, a totally different cube, you can apply this concept to the idea that every single thought you have, every single nanocond you exist, you are never ever ever actually the same person literally from one moment to the next.

Understand that any experience, any sensation of continuity is a complete and utterly self-created illusion for the sake of convenience based on beliefs that that continuity has to be there. The moment you fully understand that in the very next second you are really a completely different person.

And if you allow yourself to create enough difference, a significant amount of difference between this new person and the last person that was there a moment ago, which is not you, then the new person can simply be free to exhibit whatever traits you have defined the new person to have. And there will be absolutely no connection to whatever traits existed in the other person because that other person still exists as another person, not you. Not even who you used to be. It’s just another person that you have nothing to do with and that has nothing to do with you.

So focusing on the idea, practicing the idea of really getting a visceral sensation that you are really a truly different person no matter how you look in the mirror from moment to moment will begin to allow you to truly unlock from any reality that you do not define as have anything to do with you.

The hard intelligence in that sense is the blending intelligence. It allows the personality construct in a sense to be supported in an intuitive way that allows it to do its job and only its job and not the job of the higher self.

The heart intelligence in that sense is like the earthly support system. But the mind has the ability to ignore it. So the idea is that the heart needs to be supportive enough, open enough, big enough to allow the physical personality to know that it can rely on the support from the heart to allow it to do what it needs to do and no more. Does that make sense?

Um, the heart when it beats gives off an electromagnetic pulse that moves out from your body at the speed of light. You are all immersed in each other’s heart bubbles all the time, literally. That heart bubble expands out through the personality. It has a frequency in it. It actually carries a particular frequency.

If you will allow the mental aspect, if you will allow the persona aspect to relax, it will begin to feel that frequency. And as it feels that frequency, it can start relaxing and melting into the idea of actually doing the job it was designed to do, being supported by the heart, blended with the heart, balanced with the heart, and that will allow the higher mind to also come flooding in and the physical mind will be filled with ecstasy.

Not exactly experimenting on you, but we understand what you mean, right? They’re they’re different. And so I’m wondering, are they actually different or are they the same?

The beings, as we have said, that many of you call the grays, that are the ones primarily focused upon the hybridization agenda, the creation of the hybrid races, the five hybrid races that now exist are not actually alien beings. They are not actually extraterrestrials except in so far as many of them actually do have bases and cities on other planets. But that’s the only definition that actually fits.

The beings that you call the grays are actually from a parallel earth where they have destroyed themselves in a variety of ways in their past. They are actually mutated parallel reality humans who have taken their planet to the point of destruction that your planet has been on a course toward. in destroying themselves to a certain point and using their technology to adapt to survive. They eliminated genetically certain traits that they required for survival and they needed viable human DNA in order to perpetuate their species.

The only source of viable human DNA once they had destroyed themselves in their reality would be to harvest DNA from another parallel earth reality, yours. So is the reason that they chose me in particular is because you represent family lines that are energetically and on a soul level connected to the family lines of that parallel reality.

And is there a way to communicate with them? Absolutely. In fact, you actually communicate with them all the time. But because of the nature of the way the agenda has been carried out, they make you forget that you’ve had those communications.

If you feel you’re ready to start recalling some of those communications without fear, then you can simply begin to recall them by lying down when you go to sleep and asking for assistance in remembering. The memories may come back sporadically and it may be a little jolting at first, but you’ll get used to it. All we can tell you is eventually it will be all right and you will remember what conversations have already transpired. And when you begin to remember what conversations have already transpired, you will be ready to have more conversations.

Will they be able to provide any uh illumination into sort of life purpose? Is it I mean is that part of my That is really not their agenda. But the idea is that you will gain from the knowledge in the experience and ability to understand how to be more of who you are which fits your life’s purpose.

Because as we have said, there is only one common purpose to everyone, only one common mission to everyone, and that is to simply be your fullest self as best as you can. That’s it. Sorry, it’s that simple.

How you express the mission is up to you and is unique to you. But that’s only an expression of your purpose. The purpose is to just be you as fully as you can. And the best way to do that is to act on your joy every moment that you possibly can.

So this experience may give you more ability to tap into how you wish to express your life’s purpose. But we have just told you the long and short of your life’s purpose. There’s no more to it than that. Right?

So is there a way to make income by lucid dreaming? There is. And we’ll allow you to use your imagination to figure out how that might work. I will give you however an example. Great. Thank you. this actually exists on your planet so that you understand that if this person as a human can do this then you can do whatever you imagine you can do as well.

There was a mother whose greatest joy was to tell her children’s stories, make them up as she went, but they were very vivid, very vibrant, very colorful stories. And her children really, really loved them to the point where they invited all their friends over to begin listening to these stories.

And she would tell them, and they would get more and more rich and more and more vibrant to the point where these children began to invite their parents over to listen to the stories. And the parents started inviting their friends over to listen to the stories. And pretty soon they recognized that she was spending so much time telling them these wonderful stories that they began to offer her to pay her to tell these stories. And now she makes a very good living just telling stories.

The help that we give is in the form of the recommendation only of specific regimens of detoxification that we know are produced by companies on your planet that are extremely effective. And we have given this as systems that are put out by a company, an organization on your planet called American Botanical Pharmacy in Los Angeles.

It is not the only one, but we have guided the channel to find one of the most effective ones in the area in which he lives. And they are willing to ship all of their products everywhere in the world. And since that is one of the most effective ones that has been found, we will simply continue to suggest it because it is extremely effective in repairing almost anything that a human calls a disease or health problem.

First, detoxification. Second, look to the specific formulations they have that may address very specific areas of the body that are having challenges. And third, putting in only the natural organic nutrients that the body requires for healing. Those three things first must be done before anything else is considered. Otherwise, you will not know what your body can do on its own and before you rely on any other methodology