Q&A Session
Diamond Jewelry Design
4 years ago, I suddenly had the desire to design jewelry, and so, you know, you don’t say hello, do you?
Hello, hello, thank you for creating this dojo vibration of laughter. Hold on a second. [Laughter] We use the word sympathy, but it’s more like we’re resonating. We’re both on the same vibration, feeling the same things.
So, I used the word sympathy to mean that we’re resonating, and that’s sympathetic magic. Now, let’s move on to designing jewelry. I’m very sorry, but four years ago, I really wanted to design jewelry, and I ended up really liking all kinds of gemstones, including the ones you see lying around, and I’m really drawn to stones. So, even though I love all kinds of stones, I’m currently designing jewelry that mostly involves diamonds. So, what role does the diamond have for humanity, or rather, for the planet we live on today?
Why don’t you feel rich? For example, if you’re designing in a company, you’re under a lot of pressure, like whether it will sell. Diamonds were created under pressure, and you’re also under pressure.
Are you also under pressure right now, trying to become the diamond that you are? You can use diamonds as a symbol of yourself. Diamonds have the ability to absorb and receive pressure.
And when they reach their final shape, a diamond, they become flat even when subjected to enormous pressure. You’ve been pushed as far as you can, and as a result, you no longer feel any pressure.
If you feel that part of your core firmly and receive pressure, then you will no longer feel that pressure, and I don’t mean that in a bad way. You can reach a point where that pressure doesn’t affect you at all, even when it comes.
You feel pressure and are about to give in when you’re not yet firmly centered. When you haven’t gathered at your center yet.
Are you doing the job you love the most, the thing you enjoy, or are you working to make ends meet?
Because when you’re doing what you’re most excited about, everything falls into place at the perfect time. For example, is there a job that you can do from home that you can do while watching your kids, or are you able to create someone in your life who can watch your kids while you go out and do something?
When you’re doing what you love the most, all of the little elements of your schedule come together in perfect timing.
If your schedule isn’t flowing smoothly, it’s because you’re trying too hard to follow someone else’s schedule that’s been planted in your subconscious. It could be a schedule that society has planted in you, or a schedule you inherited from your parents.
If it’s not your schedule, then no matter how hard you try, you’ll never be able to create enough time. If it’s your schedule, then everything will happen in perfect timing.
Why does it hurt to hear?
A child’s vibrational wavelength is so high from an adult’s perspective that it’s impossible to make them match it. But there’s a good way to match yourself. You have chosen to be born, so if you are your true self, your original self, your child’s deep vibrations and your deep vibrations will naturally align.
Marriage
In reality, it is necessary to have such a human relationship. We do feel that need and get together, but it is also common to attach it to it as if it requires a ritual. Yes, one person is married to everyone.
No matter where you meet someone, it’s the same as being married in the overall sense. Some people stay together their whole lives, and others may be involved with a few people in a single lifetime. But that doesn’t make it right or wrong.
That doesn’t mean we should just apply our society’s methods to your society. But from our perspective, your society seems to be moving in that direction. I think that’s the result of an evaluation of what human relationships are for.
And when you and I are having this conversation, when we’re communicating, during this time, during this conversation, you and I are married. As you and I can say, “All of you and us will always be married, even though the definition of the relationship may change.” We can say that we, and each and every one of you, are married.
I’ve said this a few times, but if that relationship, the relationship between the two of you, changes, it’s important that that change and that transformation occur with love.
In our society, we don’t make such judgments in any kind of human relationship. We are grateful to each other, pleased, and awakened in boundless unconditional love when we all have something to live up to.
Strangely enough, it becomes paradoxical. But strangely enough, when you start a relationship with no expectations and with unconditional love, how can those relationships last?
But even before you start dating, if you’re already worried about what will happen if you break up, and you’re thinking about divorce before you get married, it won’t work that way. So in a sense, you’re already divorced, because you’re worried about divorce. So in a sense, you’re already divorced before you get married.
It’s interesting to loosen up this way of thinking a little and think about it. It’s not that marriage comes first and divorce comes later, but rather that each person is 100% true to their true selves. We exist to support each other in becoming who we are, so if we understand that clearly, no matter what changes occur, we can welcome them with love and watch over them, and no change can become negative.
Bashar: I will say here that I am married to myself. In either case, you must marry yourself before marrying anyone else. You cannot marry others unless you marry yourself. You must love yourself, and you will be able to attract people and attract people who are related to you. At the same time, I would like to say that you are now married to everyone in this society. Whether you marry one person or several times, please do it from a natural part of yourself. Society has decided that you should do this or that. Either way, you don’t want a normal marriage, right? A natural marriage is better, right?
In terms of balancing, I think it’s very important to embrace the masculine and feminine parts of yourself. So, in my own experience, last year I was dating a woman, and I felt a great sense of sympathy and we became really close.
But do you mean in the sense of a dojo? No, it was really strange. [Laughter]
But then I went to America for three months for work, and when I came back, we were completely out of sync, and I became a completely different person. So, I was a little confused, wondering why I had become a different person, and I was a little panicked, and there’s no need to fight just because you’ve become a different person.
Otherwise, everyone around you will think you’re different. So I had to fight with everyone, and that’s how it is. So, we haven’t been in contact for a while now, but through that, I somehow became a woman at one point, and she became a man. I’m not talking about past lives or anything, but this time, during our relationship.
When I felt a sense of strength towards her, I thought, “Yes, so after that, I tried to think about it positively.” So I was wondering what she had taught me, and this is what happened after we broke up. Well, basically, she taught me the true good in me, that I’m a really strong person. That’s one way of looking at it. And at the same time, she also showed me the part of you that’s good at receiving.
You want to express a certain amount of yourself, but there is no part of you that gets in the way. Either the whole of you wants to express, or the whole of you doesn’t want to express. You are either doing it or not. You are not made up of parts.
The very idea that you are doing or thinking the wrong thing creates a lot of fatigue within you and creates a lot of difficulties.
What is it that you are not doing, that you are not doing now, and that you want to do? After all, your true self does not have any parts that you are holding back. That is the state you want to be in.
So why do you think that something is getting in the way? Like anxiety or embarrassment? What do you mean by feeling ashamed about what you want to do or anxious about what you want to do? It means believing in yourself 100%.
You should always trust yourself 100%. It’s impossible not to trust yourself 100%. The difference is either you have 100% trust in the reality you want, or you trust in the reality you don’t want.
But learning how to trust yourself is pointless, because you already know how. If you didn’t trust yourself 100%, you wouldn’t be able to create the reality you’re experiencing right now.
So you trust yourself 100%. You might trust in something you don’t want, but you trust yourself 100%. That’s why I’ve been saying you can’t be hindered. There has to be something else at work to hinder you, and there’s only one way: 100% trust.
Let me give you an example now. Did you believe what I just said? Did you have to think about it? You don’t believe it. You’re not a rotten person. That’s what I’m saying. How do you know? Because you think you are, and you’re not a rotten person. So you didn’t take my criticism. That’s right.
So why do you take other people’s criticism? I think you hurt me a lot. What a terrible person you are, not only not taking my criticism, but only taking other people’s criticism. Now I’m very convinced. I think you’re not just a rotten person, but a human being. I know you’re just playing around. But I think you understand the important point now.
You don’t need to accept criticism from anyone. Believe it or not. If you feel something about the criticism someone said or said to you, it’s because you’ve already convinced yourself that you should be criticized, and you’re blaming yourself.
What you should do is with pure, unconditional love in your heart, try the following: When someone chooses to criticize you, please know that they are only criticizing themselves. They are only directing their own criticism at you out of their own fear.
And if you say sorry, please be kind to those who criticize you. People who criticize others have fears within themselves and direct them at others. They need your love, so please love them.
With love, first look at why they chose to criticize and what they are afraid of. And once you understand that, it will turn into self-love. This will turn into self-love, and if they can love themselves, that love will naturally be directed towards you.
There is no need to judge yourself for being your true self. Remember that no one else can criticize you. I hope this was helpful.
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