Asker: I need certain things in my reality in order to exist like money, i.e. domicile, etc.
Bashar: But there is not necessarily the need at this time to break down the different symbols of abundance to recognize that you are abundant.
Definition of abundance: The ability to do what you need to do when you need to do it. Period.
Now if you have that ability then you do not necessarily need a specific representational tool that you are used to thinking is the only tool that represents abundance if you are still able to do what you need to do when you need to do it. Not that you cannot have it. You certainly can. You can have anything you truly desire, anything you truly want, anything you truly need.
However, recognize that many times in the exploration of integration, many of you will begin to realize that certain things can occur in your life without the tools you are used to thinking must be in your life to bring it. So, you are exploring many different ways to create in your life what you truly need to do. And you are learning that there are many more tools to abundance than the ones you are used to thinking of, such as money. Money is a very valid and valuable tool, a valid way to represent abundance. But it does not exist everywhere. It does not exist on other worlds.
For an example, you may think, “I want to have this experience. I want to have this thing. In order to have that, I must have money. And in order to have the money, I must go and get a job. And the job may not be exactly what I want. But if I do the job, I will get the money. And then with the money, I can have the experience I truly desire.” But you have taken all these steps, all these extra steps, you see.
You say, “I want to have this thing. But I can’t have it because I don’t have the money. And I can’t get the money unless I get a job. And I can’t have a job unless I do this. So getting the money involves this whole other process over here that may take years and years and years when all the while if you had been willing to let your abundance serve you automatically and synchronistically you may have been able to turn around and find someone that’s tapping you on the shoulder all the time saying but I want to give you this thing why are you so insistent on making all this money and taking years and years and years and years to get what I want to give you now.
So the idea is simply to trust that you are always abundant and that if money is the way that you can be abundant quickest then money is the way that will come to you. An opportunity will come into your life that will allow you to make the money or you will be given the money or you will get it somehow that will allow you to do what you need to do. But if you simply trust that you are abundant and follow at any given moment what excites you the most—and that is the most important key—what excites you the most. Then life will support you 100% as life has always supported you and it will allow you to attract into your reality whatever situations will allow you to do what you need to do when you need to do it.
And if money does not come with it then take that as a sign that money is not necessary for that particular interaction. If it were it would have been there first.
Follow what excites you the most in life. Even if you have been taught to believe it can’t support you, it can. Excitement is the physical translation of the vibratory energy of the path you chose to be in this life. That’s what excitement is. The energy that represents the path you chose to be. Therefore following at any given moment the situation that brings with it the highest degree of excitement is taking the path of least resistance, is living an effortless life, and it will bring into your life all the individuals and all the situations necessary to allow you to continue to be that effortless being.
That’s the way life works and it does work that way when you let it. There is absolutely nothing too simple or too good to be true.
Getting Out of Your Own Way/Denial
Asker: Doing what excites me the most. Doing what brings me the most joy at any given moment.
Bashar: At any given moment that you are capable with the tools you have at hand of acting upon.
Asker: So what I found out that there’s times at which I seem to exist with levels of denial. All right. Be that certain programming, be ways of being. So what I need from you is a shortcut. Get me around that denial or give me some tools or share with me how you might suggest me to get out of my own way.
Bashar: Trust 100% trust in the idea you prefer to be rather than 100% trust in an idea you don’t prefer to be. You did not have to do anything special in order to deserve to exist. Infinite creation obviously therefore believes you deserve to exist. Give yourself the same benefit of the doubt.
All right. Sure. I’ll accept.
Understand? We are not telling you to do something you are not already doing. Each and every one of you has 100% trust in the idea you are experiencing in life. We are simply telling you that you can put that 100% trust behind any idea you prefer. And when you do, that’s the physical reality you will get because you always get the physical reality that is representative of the idea you have 100% of your trust behind.
If you have 100% of your trust behind the idea that you will succeed sometimes but not too often, that’s the reality you get. And then you say, “Well, what’s wrong with me? I’m not functioning correctly.” You are functioning perfectly. You are getting exactly the representation in physical reality of the idea you have 100% of your trust behind. If you don’t like the definition of the reality you get, change the definition and put 100% of your trust behind that. Then that’s the reality you’ll experience. It is that simple. Simple mechanics, simple physics.
Asker: The patterns seem to be so rutful.
Bashar: If you say so, that’s your belief. Now, do you choose to prefer to believe that that is chiseled in steel, or are you willing to look at that as nothing more than tissue paper and blow it away? When you say, “Well, it seems to me that I cannot do this. But this is the way it has been.” So what? Is that the way you want to be now?
If the answer is no, then don’t keep putting energy into the idea. “Well, it seems to be this way.” If you truly are changed, if you truly are going to act like the person who has changed the definition of their reality, you won’t say the things you used to say as the old person who believed you were in a rut. Because the new you knows there’s no such thing. So don’t talk that way if you are the new person.
You take absolutely no time to change because you do project a world of linear time reality. It may take a little time for the physical reality to transform into the representation of the real belief you are being. But don’t let that let you believe that you haven’t changed. You change the second you believe you have. Let your physical reality take whatever time is necessary to transform into a reflection of the fact that you have indeed changed.
Do not be impatient. The only reason that you—any of you—create impatience is because you think you need patience and you don’t. If you are enjoying every single moment of your life because you know every single moment of your life is there for a reason, then you won’t be waiting for something better to come along. You will be enjoying what you are doing now. And when you are not waiting for something better to come along, you don’t need to be patient. And if you don’t need to be patient, you don’t create impatience.
So if you know you have changed, if you are able to recognize that you have the ability to consciously—there is no mystery in this. Consciously decide choose: “I am now different. This belief such and such is now what I am.” Act like it. If you do not see your physical reality on the surface change immediately, don’t immediately fall back and say, “Oh, well, I failed. Oh, well, I guess I’m no good at this. Oh, well, I guess I can’t really change myself. Oh, well, it’s too difficult to change.”
Why give up that soon? Recognize, first of all, that it takes a little bit of time for the physical reality to transform. However, no physical symbol and no physical situation or circumstance has any built-in meaning. They don’t mean anything. The things, the circumstances, the props in your life don’t have built-in meaning. You give them meaning and the meaning you give them is the effect you get out of it.
So if you know you have changed and you see something, a situation occur in your life that on the surface appears to be the same or similar to something that used to occur, why simply assume that you haven’t changed? “Oh well look here it happens again. I am in the same rut over and over and over again.” No, you are continuing to believe that the surface appearance has the same meaning and it doesn’t.
If you are different, it is different. Give it a new meaning. Give the meaning to the situation that you would imagine a person who is different in the way you want to be different would look at it. Do not look at it the way you used to be. Look at it the way you are now. Say to yourself, “Well, look, if I was really this different person, if I was really this person I want to be, all abundant and all of this. If I were that person, how would I look at this situation? Would I not see something positive in it? Would I not have a different perspective, a different point of view? Yes, you would. So, look at it that way, not the way you used to.”
By looking at it the way you used to, you constantly reinforce the old reality. And that’s what creates the rut. Simply because you assume that just because a situation on the surface appears to be the same as it used to be, that it has the same reason for being there or has the same meaning built into it. No situation has built-in meaning. All situations are fundamentally neutral, blank, empty, zero. The meaning you give to it based upon what you have been taught to believe it represents is exactly the effect you get out of it. Positive meaning in, positive effect out; negative meaning in, negative effect out. It is up to you. Again, simple physics, simple mechanics.
Extraterrestrial Contact with Governments
Asker: I’m wondering how close of contact do extraterrestrials have? Have you talked to United States government very often?
Bashar: Our civilization specifically does not. There have been a couple of civilizations that have had face-to-face dialogue with certain of your governments, specifically what you call your own United States and also what you would call England.
Asker: And do the governments listen at all or to some degree understand that there is…
Bashar: Now I will use a term that is very colloquial in your language and it does not necessarily imply exactly the same thing that you might think it means. But there is an overall timetable. There is an overall plan, so to speak, to allow your civilization to acclimate to our presence in a way that will not upset your social structures too much. We are not here to destroy your planet socially. We are here to assist you in remembering who you are and allow you to choose to change your social system at the rate that is comfortable for you.
So this is the fragment of our overall plan that your government finds agreeable for it allows them to get in touch with the fact that their shift in power is not going to actually result in a loss of power. It is going to result in a gain of their own personal power. Though for now because of what you have created your governments to be they think that allowing interaction to occur with our civilizations would result completely in a loss of the power they have come to cherish. You follow me?
So we tell them in that way that it can proceed to some degree slowly but that the information can come out bit by bit at a rate that will allow them to think they still will maintain the power they are used to. But what they will begin to realize is that they are actually gaining their own self-empowerment as every single individual on your planet is gaining his or her own self-empowerment at the same time. And therefore the government will no longer be that which rules you but that which serves you.
For you will then recognize that there really is no separation and that you all are your governments. You have created them to be what they are. You are your governments. They are an extension of what you fear. “Protect us,” you say. “Protect us from this. Protect us from the things we fear.” Well, there is a very broad range of what your government has been taught to believe you will fear. And so they will protect you from everything.
If they are born out of fear, in order to survive, they must generate fear. When you take back the responsibility for your fear, then there is nothing you need protection from and no reason to have the idea of a government that stands between you and direct interaction with us. But for now, we allow the rate to continue at whatever rate is comfortable.
And they do realize that bit by bit the information cannot be suppressed because now it is in your consciousness to recognize that we do exist and so it will come out at whatever rate you are comfortable with. But there have been some face-to-face interactions. Some individuals in your government as you say colloquially are for it. Some of them are against it.
Government Controversies and Symbolism
Asker: Can I ask another question? You do not have to ask if you can ask. Proceed. It’s about what’s going on with the government in the United States right now. They’re having with this controversy with Iran, Central American wars having their real self shown in public.
Bashar: It’s symbolic of it is symbolic that now all of the things that used to be covert on your planet are now coming to the surface and creating themselves in an overt way so that it is not hidden anymore. You are allowing the subconscious and unconscious portions of your social structure to come into full light, into full consciousness, so that you can see what you have been creating your world to be. So that you can see what you have been choosing to back in terms of your government and social structures. So that you can all decide in the open, is this the way you want your world to be or do you wish it to be some other way?
You are now creating what was formerly covert to be overt so that you can decide what type of reality consciously you actually prefer and whether or not you truly wish to continue to keep things hidden from yourself. That is why you are airing your laundry so that you can decide whether or not you wish to continue to wear it.
When you say “they are doing this, they are doing that,” that is the same as you. We are doing this, we are doing that. They are not separate from you. You are your governments.
You always have the capacity without accusation, without invalidation and without judgment and without accosting them to communicate to your government the way you would prefer your world to be.
When they start hearing from enough of you, perhaps they’ll begin to believe it. But if you simply say, “Well, it’s their job to fix all of this. I have no power in this. I have no say in this.
I can’t possibly affect them or move them in any way, shape or form. It’s up to them.” Then you only allow them to continue to separate themselves from you and they do not then receive the message that you want your world to be different.
So without attacking them and without accusing them, communicate with them. You’re only communicating with another portion of your own higher consciousness. Communicate to them the way you perceive the world can be. Share your dream with them. Share your dream. Then when they begin to hear this from more and more individuals, the dream can be realized. They will allow themselves to recognize, all right, all right, it’s all right. Now we can share the information with you. Now that we know it will not upset things too much.
Male/Female Dynamics and Inner Marriage
Asker: What is it that men and women have to learn in order to be able to do their companion kind of work on this planet? Is something that they have to learn?
Bashar: Yes. What they need to learn is that every male contains masculine and feminine energy and that every female contains female and male energy and that if every male and every female is willing to marry those energies within themselves, there will be no struggling, there will be no strife, there will be no disease on your planet at all.
It is up to every individual to learn the balance of energy within themselves and that everyone is in fact an equal reflection of everyone else and that everyone contains both sides to be utilized and to be put forth in life when and where each and every one of those particular attributes is needed. But that no one side is better than any other side, no one side is any worse than any other side. That every individual has chosen to express themselves in the way they have expressed themselves. Every individual creates the reality they experience and it is up to them to marry those two polarities within each and every female, within each and every male. That marriage will absolutely erase every single problem on your planet.
Description of Bashar’s Planet and People
Asker: Are there any dolphins where you live.
Bashar: No, there are what you would find similar to smallish whale we call a Caesar. It is white with what you would call zebra stripe black.
In this way, however, it is more the idea of a fragmentary consciousness of the total consciousness of our planet and is not distinctly a separate, if you will excuse the term, alien species as yours is. Your planet to us contains two alien species: the land beings and the water beings you call the dolphin whales.
the great joy and opportunity that you have for many planets in that way do not have multiple sentient species and you will find that you have a species upon your planet that you can learn to communicate with in various ways and methods of tonality and emotionality. You have one of the few truly non-humanoid alien species on your planet right with you side by side. What a joy. What an experience.
Asker: Could you describe your planet and people?
Bashar: Our planet basically at this time contains mostly the human form humanoid as you would say life form as is represented by my body approximately of average 5 ft of height. White whitish gray skin coloration, wide set eyes, no hair on the males, hair on the females, mostly white.
You will find in this way that there are very few of us in number, as that is simply not necessary at this time for us to be great in number, and at any time fully two-thirds of our population do not exist on the surface of our planet at all, but are traveling in what you would call spacecraft. The majority of our population is not permanent. It is made up of the comings and goings of different beings from different places in the different portions of the galaxy. And also it is made up of temporary embodiment when such as many beings in your society are in your dream state and visit our world and create a temporary embodiment for themselves to experience the reality of our world and then allow it to simply dissolve when you wake up. This is the majority of the population of our planet.
As for what you would call the permanent membership, it is no greater than approximately what you would call 200 million for the entire planet. Our planet therefore has very little structures upon it. It is very much parklike as you would say. And again, also because the majority of our planet at any given time is involved in space travel and exploration.
Children, Difficult Situations, and Reincarnation
Asker: Can you speak about children coming into hard situations and growing up and believing in a lot of what you’re saying and also experiencing a lot of pain?
Bashar: many of the children now being born upon your planet will not forget as much as you have forgotten. And in this way, many of these children may actually remind you as to what these connections are.
Many of these connections being connections that have come up through many past lives. Many of the hard situations that many of these children may experience may simply be remnant situations that they needed to deal with in the relationships that were formed in past life situations. Or maybe they have chosen to be born into difficult situations, family situations, in order to allow the adults in that situation to learn from the child the things that the adults need to learn.
There can be as many reasons for a child choosing a difficult situation to be born into and grow up in as there are children. But more and more you will find that the children that are now being born into your society will be totally not only of a different generation but totally of a different culture altogether. They will have been in a sense—or let us say lack of a better term—processed now mainly through the spaces of the energy vibrations of Arcturus and Sirius and also many of them will be returning Pleiadians wishing to be born upon your planet to assist in the transformation at this time. Many of them will be beings of light and express it very early on. And again, as we have said, many of them will remind the adults who have chosen to forget who they are, who they are.
But any difficult situations will simply be the remnant processes that the individual has chosen to be born into that they feel they believe they need in their lives to learn what they need to learn. And in this way you will find that more and more of these children now that they are being born into a new culture, a new belief system, a new generation will no longer need to choose family situations that bring inherent difficulty with them.
You follow me? For the end of the reincarnational cycle is at hand. And you will find therefore that all of the contracts, all of the agreements, and all of the arrangements are now finalizing themselves within this transformational life or within the next one or two following. Then you will find that many individuals upon your planet will simply live longer lives, not needing to have experiences shuffled off or segregated into many separate lives, and that many individuals living now will actually still physically be alive in 300 of your years. And that in approximately what you call 2 to 3 thousand of your years, your society will have completely finalized anything it is needed to learn within the physical reincarnational cycle of the planet Earth and will no longer be physical, allowing themselves to make way for the next group of consciousnesses who may be willing to use the Earth vibration for their own understanding and their own tutoring of the ideas they need to experience.
Healing Childhood Trauma
Asker: How would you suggest that adults who are working on childhood for whatever reason they are engaging with that function now in particular in their male and female relationships and how that’s getting worked out on the planet?
Bashar: All right. First of all, I would suggest that you begin to recognize that you chose what you went through for your own reasons. So get in touch with how it served you in a positive way. Many individuals will choose to be born into lives in what they would call diametrically opposed belief systems within their parents so that they have something to push against to absolutely ensure that they will be brought up with a polarity belief system that will be more indicative of what is needed in this transformational age.
You follow me? So in that way first of all recognize that you knew what you were doing when you chose the family situation you were born into and you still know what you are doing.
Another suggestion would be to recognize that if you now are at the point where you realize that you made that choice, then as soon as you realize that it was a choice, you are out of the cycle. You are no longer attached to it. And that the idea of the past no longer be connected to the present. The past does not control the present. The past does not rule the present. You are at any given moment whatever definition you prefer to be.
As long as you continue to believe that what you were in the past must control what you are now, you will continue to create a life in which you think you are controlled by that past. But as soon as you recognize that you are aware consciously as a physical being of knowing that you made the choices you made to get to where you are now and that you simply can be what you want to be now, then you can simply act like what you want to be now and that what you want to be now has nothing to do with what you used to be.
Jealousy
Asker: Could you address jealousy as a human emotion and how it serves us? What is its purpose and male/female jealousy?
Bashar: Jealousy is an invalidation, an invalidation of yourself. Jealousy in this way as it is expressed upon your planet is when an individual sees something in someone else and believes “I don’t have that and I want that.”
But recognize if you have the ability to see something in someone else, you must contain it because you can only perceive what you contain. So jealousy only results from the belief that what you see in others you don’t have. When you recognize that what you see in others that you desire to be real for you, you do have and that your very ability to have seen it in someone else is an indication that you have the ability to be that way yourself.
There will be no need for jealousy for you will be able to then say, “I perceive something I have desired to be in that individual. And oh, happy day. Now that I know I can see it in that individual, that means I have the ability to manifest it just as easily.”
There is no need for jealousy when you validate yourself and love yourself unconditionally and love all beings unconditionally and recognize that you are a complete being.
You are not incomplete. You may believe you are incomplete. You may believe you see something in someone else that you don’t have. But that’s only a perspective, only a point of view. It is your opportunity to recognize that when you see something in someone else that you desire to be, you can recognize that you have the potential to be that idea.
Now, when you see something in someone else you do not desire to be, it still means you contain just as equal a potential to be that idea. But you don’t have to if you don’t prefer it. Simply recognize that everyone is a reflection. You are only looking at mirrors when you look at other people.
So what you see if you see something you do not prefer, simply recognize that the potential exists within you because everyone contains every probable reality and method of expression. But if that you do see something in someone that you do prefer to be, then take it for granted that you also contain that also.
You contain that and with that dependency or sense of need. It is not a dependency. It is not a sense of need. It is a sense of self-awareness. If you are seeing a reflection of yourself in everyone, then you know you are complete. You are not dependent upon anyone to complete you. You are complete. And when you begin to function as a complete individual, then you attract into your life individuals with whom you can share your completeness. But that does not manifest as a dependency.
Loneliness
Asker: So loneliness is an incomplete not real.
Bashar: But if these are so unreal, what is the purpose of them being felt and people are feeling them a lot in these last days as we walk through this door?
Bashar: Yes. But one moment, one moment. Understand that when you feel something, that is not the first thing that occurs. Any feeling you ever create in your life only happens as a reaction to something you already believe to be true. Feelings are secondary to belief. They do not come first. It is not simply “well this is simply the way I feel when this situation occurs.” No. As we have said, no situation has built-in meaning. You bring into every neutral situation a belief about what that situation means.
And if you bring into that situation a belief that that set of circumstances means you are going to be lonely, then of course you’re going to feel lonely. But if you understand that your loneliness only stems from the fact that you believe the situation that you are involved in is inherently loneliness-creating, then you will not have to feel loneliness by recognizing that you do not have to believe that the situation has to be manifested in that way.
When you understand that you are always at the same time alone and connected to everything, then it is up to you to choose which way you believe you will function. So if you feel lonely then that simply is an opportunity and an indication to you to realize that you believe in loneliness, that you are not connected to the infinite creation. Your choice up to you.
Now, if you choose to feel lonely because you choose to believe in loneliness, then accept that you chose to believe that way. And as soon as you accept that it was your choice to believe that way, then you will understand that you have the ability to choose to feel and believe another way. Do not deny it. Do not run from it. Do not attempt to get rid of that idea. There is nowhere to get rid of anything to. You are your own universe.
Acknowledge that you obviously chose to believe in loneliness. If you feel lonely, ask yourself well, how does it serve me to feel lonely? How does it serve me to believe in loneliness? You will get an answer if you listen to yourself. Even if the answer is only well, you chose to believe in loneliness so that you could learn you don’t prefer to believe in loneliness because it makes you feel lonely and you don’t like it. So now that you have recognized why you chose to believe in loneliness and now that you have the experience, if you no longer need to have the experience, then choose another belief and you will get another feeling to go hand in hand.
Sound, Dance, and Signature Vibration
Asker: How can sound and dance best serve this planet at this time?
Bashar: By moving to whatever moves you. By allowing yourself to recognize that everything is vibration and that when you discover for yourself what is the movement, what is the chord, what is the vibration that hits home with you, then you will be radiating that tone. You will be moving that dance for all to see. You will be being the fullest facet of the multi-dimensional crystal you can be.
And by simply moving to what you know is true for you, you give others the best opportunity to see in you that you are following your path, that you are living your dance, that you are playing your tune, which lets them know they can do the same.
There may be vibrational tones that can generally assist many individuals in your society as well. You can explore with some of those generalized tones and recognize that when you find the tone that moves you, what you are doing is you are finding your signature vibration. When you then recreate your signature vibration, your entire body chemistry and cellular structure and neural pathways will begin to vibrate according to that tone.
When you impose upon—not in a negative way—identify with, allow your body to identify with the tone that moves you, the signature vibration. Then you allow your body to go back to its zero rest idealized state. And in that state, there is no imbalance and no disease.
Therefore, if you can assist another individual in finding their idealized signature vibration and get them to recreate it so that they can immerse themselves in that vibration, their cellular structure will begin to identify with that vibration. They will allow their body—not make, not force—allow their body to snap back to the zero rest state represented by that signature tone. Then they will not have disease at all.
Understand the only reason you have disease or imbalance is because you hold yourself out of balance. When you let yourself go, you will snap back to zero. The ideal blueprint rest state of the consciousness that you are. And in that state, there is no imbalance, therefore no disease.
So a tonal vibration that represents a person’s signature core vibration can allow them to have something to identify with to allow them to snap back to zero. You follow me? That is the dance you can share if you are willing.
But first and foremost, be your own dance. Be your own tone and live fully that which is true for you or anyone else you would like to assist will not believe that you can assist them if they don’t see you as a living example.
Synchronicity Story
Charlotte: My New Year’s I was with two other people which made three of us and I just thought it was a little symbolic.
Bashar: And everything is symbolic. Everything has significance according to your own consciousness.
Asker: Well, it was just a fun thing. I had three dice and I threw them on the bed and I said the triad and they all came up threes.
Bashar: Yay. More and more synchronicity, more and more co-incident, not accident. There are no accidents.
Asker: Any exceptions, Bashar?
Bashar: No, none. Not even just one.
Asker: No.
Bashar: Well, I thought of you right away. Of course, my synchronous gift to start the new year. Thank you for being willing to give that gift to yourself and be a reflection of your own synchronicity and higher consciousness acting in the physical realm.
Lost Camera and Symbolism
Asker: I’ve been working on waiting to see something come through just like do it on my own and to see what it would bring me and now I’m ready to reflect with you and just ask you. I have a camera and a telephoto lens and it was last seen in my house and I was wondering if you could tell me if it’s still in my house.
Bashar: Now, when you begin to get the picture, perhaps you will allow yourself to recreate that symbol in your life. If necessary, allow yourself again to stop waiting for things to develop. Live the life you are living, the way it manifests in the moment, in the now.
Asker: Well, I really wanted to bring that lens with me because it’s very important and dear to me and I would have much preferred to have it with me.
Bashar: But you are your own camera. Now, this is something that is analogous to something we have shared with many individuals of late on your planet. You will find that some are present that can speak from experience. Many individuals will now find that their recording devices of all types will cease to function in these interactions because it is now up to you to be the recording device and not need the external symbol. You are taking the pictures. You have them eternally.
Asker: It’s a art form. It’s a way I share.
Bashar: We understand what you are saying but understand also what we are sharing with you. You are simply giving yourself more opportunity to truly live in the moment with the tools you were born with. When you allow yourself to rely on them more and more, you can avail yourself of the symbolic tools in your reality of the mechanisms and the technology. But you will always give yourself the opportunity to recognize precisely and especially when it is most important to you to rely on the external symbol to actually create an opportunity to rely on the internal camera, on the internal recorder.
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